Catching up: Benji got invited to orgies
百靈果News2024-01-25
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💫 Short Summary
The video features various conversations ranging from personal experiences in college, interactions with individuals, encounters with scammers, and reflections on self-improvement. It touches on topics such as relationships, cultural differences, cyber kidnapping scams, and personal growth through overcoming challenges. The speaker discusses rejecting party invitations, navigating social interactions, and emphasizing the importance of safety measures. Overall, the video transitions from discussing personal encounters to highlighting the significance of education and safety in various social situations.
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📊 Transcript
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Ken discusses his college experience studying economics and his career opportunities.
00:39Despite challenges, Ken chose economics to pursue his interest in policy research and politics.
The conversation shifts to university life, including a light-hearted discussion on drugs and healthy eating habits.
Ken's focus on maintaining a healthy lifestyle and academic interests is highlighted throughout the conversation.
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Speaker's strict workout and nutrition plan discussed.
03:45Includes two hours of exercise a day and 200 grams of protein.
Avoids alcohol, cigarettes, and weed for health reasons.
Conversation shifts to acid and muscle growth, with mention of a book on the topic.
Recounts an encounter with a girl in New York who approached them for contact information, later met the girl at a Subway sandwich shop.
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Chance encounter at Subway leads to discussions about relationships, intentions, and acting aspirations.
06:40Speaker clarifies not seeking a serious relationship, while other person's interest in physical attraction is hinted at.
Conversation includes talk about monetizing acting and future plans, showcasing cultural differences.
Playful banter and interaction between the two individuals throughout the conversation.
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Discussion of a 5-year plan, preferences for Chinese dramas, and woman's piercings.
11:53Initial rejection from the man, followed by agreement to be friends.
Man's reluctance to meet new people and preference for interactions in classrooms.
Woman initiating conversations about personal topics like family and children.
Discussion about the possibility of having kids together.
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Encounters with a girl with pink hair and piercings lead to initial shock and stereotypes.
13:13Invitations to parties involving drinking and intimate activities cause discomfort and judgment.
The girl questions physical standards for attractiveness, highlighting societal beauty norms.
Despite attempts to include the speaker in social events, there is a sense of unease and misalignment with the girl's values.
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Speaker added to group chat with people from China and invited to explicit party requiring $60 payment.
16:09Speaker felt uncomfortable with nature of party, declined invitation despite being asked multiple times.
Speaker reflects on being invited three times, questions intentions behind invitations.
Uncertain if invitations were part of pickup artist approach or random occurrences.
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Speaker discusses rejecting group's advances due to feeling sketchy and pushy.
21:52Second and third encounters were less sketchy, with girls described as pretty and better-looking than first group.
Speaker compares girls' appearance to those seen on social media.
Despite being asked to be friends, speaker remains cautious and uninterested.
Interactions characterized by girls initiating contact and showing interest in forming connections.
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Cultural Differences in Socializing with Chinese People on WeChat.
22:55Chinese people often invite others to parties as a way to connect on WeChat.
Safety concerns may arise when attending parties, especially those related to sex.
Specific party experiences were shared, along with the costs associated with attending these events.
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Scammers exploit Chinese exchange student in Utah by faking a kidnapping.
28:10The scammers manipulated the student into isolating himself in a forest by taking a picture in a tent.
The student's family was threatened by the scammers to extort money from them.
This incident highlights a disturbing trend of cybercriminals preying on vulnerable individuals for financial gain.
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Cyber kidnapping scam involving scammers threatening victims with compromising photos and demanding ransom.
30:09Scammers are bilingual and target vulnerable individuals.
Ransom amounts can reach up to $80,000, and victims are often too afraid to report the crime.
Victims are manipulated into following scammers' demands in this cyber kidnapping scheme.
Safety measures such as informing trusted friends of whereabouts are advised to prevent falling victim to such schemes.
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Speaker's college experience in New York.
33:59Lack of campus spirit due to scattered buildings and isolated locations.
Making friends, participating in exchange programs, and traveling with college buddies.
Reflection on exchange program in Italy and freedom of traveling worry-free in Europe.
Contentment with current life and past struggles with depression during college.
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Overcoming weight issues through exercise and healthier habits.
36:34The speaker faced academic pressure and low self-esteem during college in Toronto, leading to stress eating and isolation.
A year before graduating, they decided to make a change and focused on getting healthier.
Through exercise, they gained confidence, lost weight, and found a job, leading to a positive transformation in their life.
The interviewer relates to the speaker's inspirational story of overcoming weight issues.
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Success can come at any age.
40:36Importance of self-improvement through working out and healthy habits.
Story about encountering a man with a dark past in a park.
Reflection on past experiences of not being popular in high school and personal growth.
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Speaker recounts uncomfortable interactions with party invites involving alcohol and weed, particularly in New York.
44:41Speaker declines invite to potential sex party, expressing discomfort.
Chinese students from NYU approach speaker, sparking conversation about their background and affiliation with the university.
Speaker expresses skepticism towards Chinese students' claims, doubting their intentions and credibility.
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Interaction with a girl while playing table tennis leads to invitation for hangout, initially mistaken for a date.
48:09Declined hangout due to test preparation, girl persistently invites to a party, causing suspicion.
Discussion on online safety emphasizes risks of sharing personal information on social media.
Scammers exploit personal information, safety tip suggests establishing a safety word with family members.
Importance of caution in online interactions and avoiding falling victim to scams through vigilant practices.
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Importance of having a safety word in the family for emergencies.
49:17Transitioning focus from sex parties to educational content on the channel.
Emphasizing the original educational intent of the video content.
Encouraging open communication and preparedness for unexpected situations within the family dynamic.
Highlighting the shift in content direction towards more educational and informative topics.
00:00welcome to catching up where we catch up
00:02with latest news go and what's happening
00:05in our lives I'm Peggy this is Ken this
00:07is Kylie
00:11hi Peggy what's going on why you
00:14stuttering I'm still worried about the
00:16angle but don't worry about we've been
00:18spending so much time on checking like
00:21the best angle for pegy
00:25only let's go we got to do man
00:29what's going on
00:30so okay Benji just got back from New
00:32York right you're back from um New York
00:35yeah yeah you were there for four months
00:36this was your first semester yeah of
00:39college how was it it was really fun I
00:41think um f i feel like culturally it's
00:44uh a lot more open compared to Taiwan um
00:47really in terms of like everything just
00:50like academics people don't really care
00:51about I would say like most people that
00:53I've met they don't really care about
00:55test results that much um cuz cuz I
00:58think in college only and or maybe cuz
01:01I'm majoring econ and like the friends I
01:03make are mostly like econ Majors so so
01:05you think econ Majors don't care about
01:06their great I don't think they care that
01:08much compared to like Finance kids cuz
01:10Finance kids they want to get into like
01:11invest in Banks and you need like hold
01:13on what's the difference between econ
01:14and finance Finance more specific so
01:17they are in a higher
01:20position no I I feel like Finance is
01:22definitely higher yeah definitely higher
01:24cuz uh I mean you actually learn
01:26technical skills but I feel like for
01:27econ it's more theoretical so it's
01:30harder to find a good job so why are you
01:32in Eon then I thought you studyed really
01:33hard I thought you were a good student
01:36Tai in taian you're like one of the best
01:37student in Taiwan now you're Inu then
01:40don't give a did you know what you
01:43were getting into before you yeah I mean
01:44econ was going to be hard and the
01:46employment opportunities might be like
01:48relatively I guess like shittier than
01:51like then why did you choose
01:54e easier I know I think it's definitely
01:57harder it's more math heavy uh for
01:59finance is basic algebra and like
02:01accounting but I want to do like policy
02:04research too he wants to be a politician
02:06I want to be a politician and really so
02:08so I have to major in econ so that my
02:11minor can be polyi so can you do finance
02:13major and also do a minor in poly oh
02:16yeah but like it's going to be like I
02:18think the poly side courses that I take
02:20would be more it's not to my interest I
02:23feel like uh you know weong was probably
02:26a finance guy right no I think he took
02:28econ in how did he get into Gman well
02:30cuz econ Majors can also get into like f
02:33they could still do so do you think he
02:34got into Gan because of luck or
02:37connection that he had I don't know but
02:38he how you don't have the kind of
02:40connection I know
02:42man hey was like okay this time I'm free
02:45I'm like I'm safe today oh my God en
02:49joying the show I feel I'm just Ming
02:52with you sorry you're blushing why are
02:54you blushing I don't know I don't feel
02:56we're not we haven't even got to the six
02:58party party yet yeah to the sex party
03:00part but no no before that since now
03:02you're in University have you tried any
03:04drugs yet like you you mean like weed or
03:08just drugs or
03:10and
03:11never not at all yeah I don't even like
03:15fight chicken and you don't even
03:17eat I don't I don't even eat like fast
03:20food there's just a ra you don't eat
03:21anything that's unhealthy I don't eat
03:23anything that's and healthy yeah and I
03:24have like a I have like a nutritional
03:26like a planner thing so I have to like
03:29wait wait you have a nutritional planner
03:31in New York yeah yeah so I have to no
03:32it's like no it's not a person it's like
03:34a you have made cleaning your bedroom no
03:36I don't have it made cleaning bedroom
03:37you
03:39sorry like I I have like a plan that I
03:41follow and like I have to I basically
03:43have to you know work out like two hours
03:45a day and then I have to int take like
03:47uh 200 gram of protein every day cuz you
03:50know like you want you got to keep you
03:52know keep yourself in check so I can't I
03:54can't do any like alcohol like
03:56cigarettes or weed or anything like that
03:58so wait why are you why are you making
04:00no no no it's fine you have your own you
04:02can make your own decision you're an
04:03adult there's this book that's talking
04:05about how acid were like some of the
04:08drugs due to you and it actually doesn't
04:10affect your brain that way is what do
04:11you think I I'll find the name of it and
04:13I'll send it to you oh for real for
04:15health probably no find like find a book
04:17that talks about how acid builds muscle
04:19growth then he
04:23will maybe yeah I mean but a lot of
04:25people in New York they try and then
04:28even under AG yeah yeah cuz like uh
04:29legally speaking you can't do that when
04:31you're in college you got to be over 21
04:33but a lot of people they go to parties
04:35and you have alcohol there so they do is
04:38no no I mean like are you not 21 yet no
04:40I'm
04:4118 oh wait what oh do I look do I look
04:45older than 18 yeah probably not 18 are
04:49really tall no you were just saying that
04:52when you were in New York there were a
04:53lot of sex parties and you got a lot of
04:55invites right yeah I got three invites
04:56it's not that much two sex parties have
04:58you gone to any of them no you look a
05:00little too excited
05:01Peggy how did you get offers like did
05:04you just walk on the street and somebody
05:06approach you say hey hey bro hey bro you
05:09want to come to a 6 oh my God hey how do
05:12how do you happen I feel like uh cuz I
05:14live in like a dorm and then there's
05:16like this public space public area thing
05:19that we yeah common room and then a lot
05:21of Chinese kids they hang out there and
05:23they play like long ins sh and stuff
05:25there so board games everything like
05:28that and usually you have like 20 people
05:30there just like always there they're
05:31just always there playing and then I I
05:34played T tennis with my friend also in
05:35the public area so there's this one time
05:37where I joined them for for for like a
05:39game the Chinese kids for the Chinese
05:41kids yeah yeah yeah and after the game
05:42it was like after 3 hours one of the
05:44girls just went up to me I was really
05:46shy cuz like that was my first encounter
05:49with like a girl you know like I haven't
05:51really talked to any girls um since I've
05:53gotone to New York and she was one of
05:54like the first girls who approached me
05:56and she was like pretty uh I I wouldn't
05:58um I
06:00oh I wouldn't say I would say let I
06:04wouldn't say she's not pretty but she's
06:05definitely like you know it depends
06:07right it's she's just not ugly she she's
06:10do you have her her Instagram I don't
06:12have they used to We Chat and then uh a
06:14lot of things a lot of things happen
06:16though like um so so she was like oh I
06:19think you're kind of cute and I was like
06:20oh thank you so much and then she was
06:22like yeah can I have your can I have
06:23your WeChat and I was like um sorry I'm
06:25not really open to that and then I just
06:26went up and I left and a week later I
06:28met her at like a sand like Subway and
06:30then I was lining up for like a sandwich
06:32right and she was just right behind me
06:33oh you take
06:35Subway sandwich place sandwich place um
06:37so yeah I was getting like a meal and
06:39there she was just right behind me and
06:40then and I was like oh yo oh hi you want
06:42to eat my sandwich no you my foot
06:47long you're my six incher no I'm just
06:50kidding no oh my God but I'm sorry keep
06:55going keep going she was I behind you so
06:58we ended up having meal together cuz she
07:00was like oh do you want to have a meal
07:01together and I was like oh yeah sure cuz
07:03I felt kind of bad rejecting her um so I
07:06had a meal with her I got to know her a
07:08bit more actually I want to go back to
07:10the part that when she ask you for we
07:12you say I'm not open to that yeah
07:14Perfect Since bring it but how does she
07:16phrase it in Mandarin can
07:19you okay so he said
07:23uh and then she was
07:28like
07:31I was like what is v and she was like a
07:33Ving I was like what I was like V Oh you
07:37mean WeChat and she was like yeah and
07:39and then I was like yeah uh I'm sorry
07:40but I'm not really open to like
07:42relationships and things like that what
07:44we even after
07:48relationship she just want to have
07:49something fun oh for real she just want
07:52to know you a little more it's all like
07:54open your way CH having sex right is
07:57like hey do you have ly that's line
07:58together can I follow you on
08:00relationship I feel like really I don't
08:03know like I mean she she's like
08:05interested in me right so I just wanted
08:07to make it clear that I don't know s
08:09like suck dick and stuff right you don't
08:11know physically or mentally like
08:14interested in you I'm pretty sure she's
08:16like physically into me cuz or else you
08:18would approach me in a first exactly so
08:20she's maybe she's not really looking for
08:22a serious relationship oh so she just
08:23want to like play around and get proba
08:26want to talk to you and know you a
08:28little bit
08:30a game they can get
08:31you anything is possible not everything
08:35is sexual everything sexual to youor
08:38have we taught you we taught you nothing
08:40but she said we pretty much taught him
08:43everything is sexual I'm so
08:45sorry than you so much also don't take
08:47it too serious when people call you shyo
08:49have you ever been to breakfast place in
08:51Taiwan everybody's Sho and
08:55M everybody's even I know but like she
08:58was like oh I think you're kind of even
09:00I'm Striker so it doesn't doesn't mean
09:02anything no you're good looking I like
09:03your hair anyway let's go back to to
09:07Subway what happened what what did you
09:09guys talk about oh yeah so so so
09:11basically she was just like yeah she she
09:13said the same thing she was like oh
09:14you're really cute and I was like oh
09:15thank you so much and and then we sat
09:17down but I really wanted to eat alone
09:19cuz I don't really like okay let me let
09:22me finish the story though like okay so
09:23she was like why don't you just do long
09:25distance course and she was like oh yeah
09:26I'm doing acting she's actually she's
09:29like an actor oh that's cool I was like
09:31yeah that's that's really cool right and
09:33I was like are you trying to like
09:34monetize it like you know are you trying
09:36to go on Netflix or what do you what do
09:37you plan on doing in the next 5 years oh
09:40my God what's wrong with
09:44you I'm dad China you're like her dad
09:49from China I'm like the annoying
09:50relative me at I was like I was like yo
09:53what do you how do you monetize it what
09:56no I didn't say that I was
09:58like
10:00oh cuz she's
10:02an did you hear him asking her about the
10:055year plan the 5year plan oh did he say
10:08the five year plan ask that right about
10:10the 5e plan like what do you want to do
10:12in the next 5 years F no what are you
10:15supposed to say I are you supposed to be
10:16like oh yeah uh don't do that what just
10:19say what kind of do you watch like this
10:21sandwi kind do you guys noo yo like what
10:24kind of things that you like to watch
10:26you know maybe next time we can watch it
10:27together or something show and just say
10:31not that but just say that you know
10:33because I don't watch that much you know
10:34Chinese dramas that you maybe you can
10:36tell me recomend some of the good ones
10:38and you can watch them and say they're
10:40so bad you should watch some tanese ones
10:42I don't Bing T so good
10:44right like free Pomo okay but like uh
10:47but okay to be fair she had a lot of
10:49piercing so I was a bit afraid afraid
10:51why she's going to pke you exactly like
10:54everywhere everywhere like she had like
10:56eight piercings on uhhuh where where
10:58where
10:59just on the face on the face yeah and I
11:02I was a bit I was you know I was a bit
11:03reluctant okay I kind of feel you yeah
11:05you know what I mean right cuz like you
11:06know I just got to New York you know I'm
11:07not really familiar with the places that
11:09much and what's the color of her hair
11:10how old is she pink there you go I'm on
11:13her side okay I'm on her side thank you
11:14so much ask boring question freak her
11:17out that will be my strategy when I meet
11:20people like this I would just be as
11:22boring as I can to just let them
11:24but he didn't intentionally do it it
11:26would just do it
11:30I did it on purpose oh my God but yeah I
11:33was like oh she was like oh yeah I want
11:34to do acting you know I might go back to
11:36China and you pursue acting I was like
11:38oh yeah that's really nice yeah yeah and
11:40we had we had like a 30- minute
11:41conversation okay right
11:44I'm and then like 10 year plan and you
11:46know oh talked about whether you want to
11:48have kids or not okay anyways no no no
11:51she was the one
11:53strategy scare a woman off with a lot of
11:57piercing on her face she me she asked me
11:59whether I want to have kids and I was
12:00like yeah of course you know like why
12:02not you know she was like sh asked you
12:04yeah she she no cuz like she was she
12:06initiated cuz I have a sister and she
12:08was like oh what about your sister I was
12:09like yeah you know my sister's like a
12:10kid to me I take care of her every day
12:12right she's like oh yeah but do you want
12:13to have kids too and I I was like yeah
12:16sure you know do you know what to do
12:17before having kids that's why she said
12:20no sorry I my God yeah and and I was
12:24like yeah sure you know like I want to
12:25have kids that's why we ended up having
12:28you know this kid conversation right and
12:29then she asked me for my WeChat again
12:31and I didn't say that I was like thank
12:33yeah yeah sure why not yeah let's be
12:34friends okay so so the way you rejected
12:37her the first time was just so weird I'm
12:40not open to anything I just like I just
12:42I wasn't really open to meeting new
12:44people right like that way I don't
12:45really like to have someone come up to
12:47me and then like ask me for my contact
12:49info I prefer just meeting them in like
12:51classrooms and like but now that you
12:53mention about the hair color and the
12:54piercing I'm on side you guys got to be
12:56in my context it was crazy um but uh I
13:00was so scared off here's the thing I
13:02I've never okay I have like two female
13:04friends throughout my entire life and
13:06both of them are relatively more you
13:08know like more con they're more mod
13:11pretty on the low you know like you know
13:13it's you to see a girl with piercings
13:15and pink and purple hair you know it's
13:17kind of like it it scares you a big
13:19shock yeah it was a big shock for sure
13:21the last person the last girl that I
13:23knew with pink hair was a psycho
13:25seriously be aware of girls with pink
13:27hair wait wait what did she do to you
13:30just she's dramatic you're not looking
13:32for anything
13:33drama damn the conversation went from
13:36having kids you know five year 10 year
13:38plan two sex parties oh yeah so she so
13:40basically she texted me like after a few
13:42days she was like oh I have like a
13:44hangout do you want to join and it's a
13:46joju so you drink and you play games at
13:48someone's house like someone's apartment
13:50right and I was like oh no I'm fine I
13:51don't I don't drink I'm sober and she
13:53was like oh really okay fine and then
13:56after like one week I met her again at
13:58like the school cafeteria run into each
14:00other I I ran into here yeah and then
14:02and I was just eating by myself right
14:03and she can't she came up I'm always on
14:06my own like I was just watching pinga
14:10news was
14:14like sorry now we feel bad that we're so
14:17mean to you I feel bad that our video
14:20 blocked
14:21you I I was like oh k Bingo yeah I'm
14:25eating my eating myself St right I'm by
14:27myself I'm doing just fine and she came
14:29up to me I was like oh hi I was like oh
14:31hey nice meeting you again and then
14:33basically we had another conversation
14:36and she was like oh yo do you know much
14:37Chinese people here I was like no not
14:39really you know I hang out with mostly
14:40you know people from my class my from my
14:42econ class then she was like oh yo are
14:44you into like weed like do you do smoke
14:46weed I was like No And like we we
14:49usually like we host parties in groups
14:52of like 20 or 30 people and then out of
14:54those 20 and 30 people we picked the
14:56best looking people to do like you know
14:58more more intimate stuff and I was like
15:00o what do you mean by intimate stuff
15:02right piggy is so excited yeah I can
15:05tell I can tell yeah she's really
15:06excited yeah what what what was her
15:08phrasing again more attractive people
15:09exactly who was she to talk like oh we
15:12pick more attractive people yeah I'm
15:14sorry okay so you're judging the people
15:16with pink hair stop stop judging people
15:19with pink hair okay sorry cuz there's
15:21this concept of kayen basically you have
15:23to be like for guys I think you have to
15:25be over like a certain height you have
15:26to be six foot is that 100
15:29C so you got to be like tall right I
15:32feel like that's sort of like the beauty
15:33standards there and then for girls you
15:34got to be I don't I'm not sure I'm not
15:36sure boobs I I don't know I'm startingly
15:38out oh man I don't know maybe you could
15:41pay your wi weigh in or something I'm
15:43not sure cuz but but but then she was
15:45like uh so so do you want to join are
15:47you interested right do you want to just
15:48check it out we don't have to do you
15:50don't have to drink you can just you
15:51know you just do whatever you know you
15:53can meet new people cuz those people are
15:55also like some of them are my classmates
15:57right but they're like Chinese people
16:00and I was like probably not the you know
16:02drinking and drinking part but I'm open
16:04to meeting new people and he's like yeah
16:05sure let me let me add you to like a
16:07week chat group and I was added to a
16:09week chat group right and there's like
16:10around 15 people she said like 20 or 30
16:13but it was only 15 and I was all from
16:15China all from China yeah and then and
16:18and when I got into the group chat she
16:19was like everyone was like oh sh
16:21gole everyone in the group female I
16:24think I think uh 60% 60% yeah and then
16:29um it is a little sketchy to be honest
16:31sket it was really sketchy and since you
16:33know NYU is such a big school right uh I
16:36didn't know any of these
16:37people there yeah so and then there's
16:40this like after a few days there's this
16:42like announcement in the in the we track
16:43group and they were like oh oh we we're
16:46gonna have a party at this address on
16:50this day if you want to sign up please
16:52uh pay you got to pay $60 did they
16:54mention about anything intimate they
16:56said
16:57like okay
17:01and I was like why do you have that
17:02accent I don't they speaking that way
17:05yeah I'm trying to you know like create
17:06the scene and I was like y what's
17:08happening man why why do I got to pay
17:10$60 just to have fun BR 60 I can eat
17:14it's true though was in college $60 is
17:16lot $60 is a lot I get you inflation is
17:19high man crazy I I can't affraid that
17:22you got to add another 20% I'm not doing
17:25that and then so basically um I rejected
17:29them I was like no I'm not going to do
17:30it and the girl texted me again she
17:31called me but we were not even that
17:33close she was like yo why why why aren't
17:36you coming I thought you wanted to meet
17:37new people I was like but not in this
17:38way right and and then she was like she
17:40was a little too pushy to be honest too
17:42pushy but like everything I just
17:44describe it was over like the span of
17:45like I would say like a month which I
17:48would I would consider pretty like it's
17:50a pretty short amount of time right per
17:52yeah I asked her directly what do you
17:54what do you do what do you do you know
17:55like what are what are you trying to
17:56make me do and she's like okay I'll just
17:59be really honest with you we have sex
18:01like weed sex parties and then I was
18:03like what so so you just smoke weed and
18:07you drink alcohol and you want me to pay
18:09$60 to be part of that and SE to have
18:12sex yeah and and she was like yeah are
18:14you still a virgin I I was
18:17like what what what are you trying to
18:19what are you trying why are you asking
18:21this you answer it I was like I was like
18:25yeah I was like I was like yo why are
18:26you even asking this me you pay $60 and
18:30you're asking me this sort of question
18:31and then she was like oh no you know I
18:33mean I mean you speak you sound like a
18:35virgin I was
18:37like
18:38I I was like yo I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm
18:41just like 18 i't you know like chatted
18:44with any females before but and she was
18:46like yeah so do you want to do you want
18:47to join or not I really think you're
18:49cute and I think you would fit in and I
18:50was like y I appreciate it but no thank
18:52you so this is like the first time I got
18:54invited oh that was the first time I got
18:55invited three times by three different
18:57people three different people were they
18:59all the same method just like randomly
19:01run to you are they like pickup artist
19:04like I have no idea are they just like
19:07is it just a brel or something or just a
19:09way to trick T these guys bro I have no
19:11idea man cuz CU now it sounds a little
19:13sketchy yeah it sounds sketchy to me now
19:16I think you did the right thing to
19:17reject them yeah what do you thinkg how
19:20many people were there in that group
19:21again you mean the group chat or can we
19:23see the group CH no I I I blocked
19:26every you tell them like I support tib
19:28Independence or Ty
19:34[Music]
19:35independence why is the country and then
19:38you just tell them say Hey you know I
19:40work for bilingual just send the
19:42national in there yes oh you didn't do
19:46it I didn't do it man I don't I don't
19:49know I don't think can you unblock them
19:51oh my God wa okay we'll do it after this
19:53we do it after but okay um so the next
19:56two times they all happen in in similar
19:58fashion uh pretty similar but it was
20:01less sketchy you know like they weren't
20:02that pushy and it was more like a are
20:04they also from China three of them are
20:07all like Chinese girls wow and then they
20:09were like
20:10is thing wait my mom is going to see
20:13this I'm your mom's going to see this no
20:15no my mom's going to watch this right
20:16yeah but you rejected them all okay I
20:19did the right thing is a good kid I did
20:21the right thing yeah he works with us he
20:23doesn't get any bad influence from us
20:25yeah
20:27yes
20:30oh my God Lotus still Bloom from from
20:35the you guys are so oh no you guys his
20:38mom's going to be like stay away from
20:39that girl called
20:41Peggy try to talk to in
20:44acid I think New York is way crazier
20:47than like Bing b I'm sorry we're
20:52conservative PR what do you want from me
20:55what do you
20:56want like but I think it was like more
20:59likeing type thing right I'm sorry I'm
21:03sorry do you think I sex party right now
21:07you got to show me evidence man you got
21:08to show me evidence but like these
21:10people actually do it you know it's
21:11crazy so wait did I just say something
21:15yeah I was really offended D but yeah
21:20yeah I
21:20knew oh man I I knew it I knew it but no
21:23but like I mean here like we we just
21:25talk about it right we haven't been to
21:27like you know
21:28uh we haven't you know done things in
21:31per you know like cuz we haven't met 10
21:33years
21:34ago I I mean like there's no way that
21:38even we've done things we can't say it
21:40in public you know that right uh it's
21:42good it's good yeah no but it's okay so
21:46so the second time and third time they
21:48were less sketchy but why did you reject
21:52them like how did you meet these girls
21:54were they good-looking uh were they
21:56better looking than the first one
21:58uh less piercing yeah like the second
22:01second one let's start with they didn't
22:02have any piercings a hair color black
22:06okay okay how do they look do they look
22:09pretty yeah I feel like they're just
22:11those type of girls that you see on
22:13shungu you know also pretty girls or or
22:15shahu is photoshoop though yeah yeah I
22:17would say you guys would definitely
22:19think that they're uh relatively better
22:21looking okay okay and I think they
22:24better looking than Kylie oh Kylie is
22:27goodl looking a I don't I don't
22:29care okay continue continue yeah but uh
22:32uh yeah they they're uh I don't know
22:34like um but they asked me right they
22:36they wanted to be friends too they asked
22:37for like it all happened it all started
22:40by with like the girl asking me for for
22:42weat okay so that's that's a thing in
22:45yeah I feel like that's a thing right
22:46like I think Chinese people they ask you
22:48for your WeChat they get to know you bit
22:50more and they invite you to these
22:52parties could it be those girls were
22:55actually from the same group that they
22:56saw you and and then when they saw
22:59t
23:01uh did you ask any other tanese friends
23:04that who encountered the similar
23:06situation you have any Taiwanese friends
23:09there CU I'm sure this is not an
23:10independent situation um I have like 10
23:14people from my high school going to NYU
23:16did you ask them uh no I I you probably
23:19could I didn't but like I uh I think you
23:22I consulted sketchy yeah I consulted
23:25with one of my friends who who go to
23:26parties he goes to a lot and he was like
23:29no I never really you know encountered
23:31these sort of stuff is your
23:35friend oh my God yeah he's on a shorter
23:39end you know like yeah I'm not sure but
23:42like yeah uh yeah I feel like maybe
23:44maybe because uh I'm not sure like maybe
23:46because I'm taller and that's perceived
23:48as something that's more attractive to a
23:50lot of Chinese girls I thought that they
23:53were like white too right uh no they
23:56only invite Asian dudes
23:58Taiwanese everyone there was like
24:00Chinese do they speak English no they
24:02just type in simplified Chinese okay
24:04yeah so they don't even speak English I
24:06don't think their English is that good I
24:08yeah so they're speaking Chinese interes
24:11that's really that's it's a little weird
24:14that's a little weird it is really weird
24:16or we are just too old we don't know
24:19it's just it sounds very sketchy though
24:21yeah py what what what do you think yeah
24:23what's your take yeah when you were in
24:25Thailand did your Chinese classmate
24:27invite to anything I wasn't friend with
24:31any of them so I was pretty I I spoke uh
24:35about taiwan's independency pretty
24:36publicly but also just like just now
24:39that we told you to to do that make sure
24:41you have enough of backups like enough
24:43of friends otherwise they might do
24:45something to you you don't know for what
24:47I me like back then they didn't do
24:49anything with me is because I've got a
24:50lot of friends with all kind of
24:52nationalities so they won't really mess
24:53with me but they all know where I live
24:55even my friends told me they were like
24:57oh yeah they know know that you live
24:58with like at which um in which building
25:01on which floor in which room damn that's
25:04crazy so be careful feel unsafe no no no
25:08okay uh damn yeah I don't know man it's
25:10uh it's okay if you want to go to a sex
25:12party we can go to Bernie man together I
25:16would love to yeah just go to berning
25:18man but I I me like we really need to
25:21prep for that I don't want to be like
25:23you just spend a lot of money yeah yeah
25:25all you need to do is spend a lot of
25:26money and to be more comfortable yeah
25:28yeah yeah that's that's the whole point
25:29I how much is it like usually I know I
25:32never been there cuz I was really poor
25:33when I was student according to f f oh
25:37like a th000 for Ticket something like
25:39800 something to to get in but it
25:42depends how comfortable you want it's a
25:46it's a a desert that's a desert not like
25:48sex party but they do have like orgy
25:50Dome that you can get in and they have
25:52strict rules to follow but you go there
25:55and you people get naked and stuff so I
25:57guess it's a lot safer than the
26:00invitation for much thank you much and
26:03then make sure that you know like you
26:05don't you get conent and you only hang
26:07out with people that you know that kind
26:08of stuff cuz like for me it somehow
26:11feels like a way to get you there and
26:14take some crazy videos and then extort
26:17you for me it feels like that it's not
26:19not even about just a little weird cuz
26:21when I was in Berkeley uh the only
26:23people that I knew cuz we do like naked
26:26running that's why for sure it wasn't
26:28like people uh having sex during the run
26:30right they just went naked so it was a
26:32pretty normal in Berkeley you you just
26:35took out your clothes and put it in the
26:36stairway and then everybody ran oh yeah
26:39in the library during final see it was
26:43actually there was one time that cuz we
26:45were all reading and we all know what's
26:46going to happen that everybody was
26:47waiting but you didn't know the exact
26:49timing but you kind of know it's going
26:50to happen and then I remember there was
26:53a Asian guy I think he was wearing a
26:55mask but he was naked with a cape and
26:57the mask he was skateboarding and he
27:00like fell right by my table so I would
27:03seeing him doing like this and lay down
27:05and with penis out so it was was it was
27:07it like standing up or no his penis no
27:11no no it wasn't it wasn't it was just
27:12size small and soft and
27:15likee no no nobody was laughing he just
27:18fell come on yeah I know he just fell so
27:20nobody was laughing cuz it was part of
27:22the weird culture that Bley has but
27:24anyways and so for people who want to go
27:26to like naked sex party only for certain
27:30like crazyer uh fraternity and then it's
27:33under invit on uh invitation it's not
27:35like open to everyone that's but you got
27:37invited three times I I really I think
27:39it was a little weird it was a little
27:40weird uh but I don't think like money is
27:42her like incentive though cuz like I
27:44think those people they drive like
27:46really nice cars and you know they they
27:48how do you think they afford those
27:49really nice cars how did I get this
27:51money but you don't know because let's
27:54talk about let's talk about the news
27:55that py prepared because I think it's
27:57not in my business anymore I really want
27:59to know this okay okay come back because
28:02your news is cyber criminals right
28:05people are involed it feels like this
28:08could be part of this can we come back
28:10to the
28:12second okay I was already enjoying the
28:15show and okay all right
28:19contribute it's really fun today to
28:22listen I know okay so there was this
28:23news that a Chinese exchange student
28:27who's found in Utah I think in the
28:30forest and he was all cold and scared so
28:33it turns out there was this um there are
28:36scammers who persuade him to isolate
28:40himself into like I don't know where
28:43like where mountain or whatever yeah
28:45just just get into the forest or
28:46wherever to camp and then they even
28:49convinced him to take a picture of
28:50himself to show his parents that he is
28:54actually isolated or like he's in the
28:55tent or whatever so that they can use
28:57the picture send it back to their uh
29:00that that guy's parents to say oh we
29:02kidnapped him and so they can get money
29:04from them from the parents yes from the
29:06parents otherwise he couldn't get money
29:09from his parents I know it sounds really
29:10weird right I don't even know how do
29:12they even do it so they they do it both
29:14ways they went to this guy and told him
29:17like your family is in danger and if you
29:19don't follow what I ask you to do then
29:21we're going to hurt them so of course
29:23the guy was freaked out and saying okay
29:25okay I'll do whatever things that you
29:26ask me to do because like in the in the
29:29news article they didn't reveal but only
29:31on news that they they said it was they
29:34um they threat him so they threaded him
29:37telling him that you have to do what I
29:39asked you to and then send me the
29:41picture isolated herself and then after
29:45he sent the picture to these scammers
29:47they went to his parents or his family
29:49and told them okay we kidnapped him yes
29:51wow so the the criminals are Chinese too
29:54then that's suppose yes yes well they
29:56don't have have the evidence yet but
29:59they believe but they're bilingual what
30:01cuz they speak English and Chinese oh oh
30:05yeah that's a joke that A J so the
30:09ransom was $80,000 um us oh wow oh
30:13that's a crazy and they say it's not
30:16just the the only case it happened a lot
30:19yeah but they don't have the exact
30:20number yet because a lot of people they
30:22won't report it because they're afraid
30:24so yeah this thing is like they call it
30:26cyber kidnapping so they basically don't
30:28need to do anything they just contact to
30:31this kid and then ask him to do like
30:33whatever things they ask them to do and
30:35then go to their yeah so if you go to
30:37those isolated address I think just by
30:38going to those like crazy addresses it's
30:40already sketchy right cuz you don't know
30:42what's waiting behind those doors yeah
30:44you never know and you can't really take
30:46a friend because they say it's
30:47Invitation Only by saying that you bring
30:51nobody knows that you're gone so it's
30:54already a little bit dangerous I sex
30:56party sounds really fun but only go to
30:59like like a safe and the people that you
31:01really trust if we have a sex party in
31:04bilingual I'm sure you can trust us oh
31:06for real dude I don't want to imagine
31:09that oh for example for example to much
31:12always let your friend knows like where
31:13you're going or even if you're taking
31:15anything always make sure you have a
31:16friend who that you can really trust
31:18toit you for sure yeah but mostly I just
31:21stay in my dorm and like the gym and
31:23okay or try home no I also go to like
31:25social events but like you know what
31:27kind of social events did you go like
31:29okay like forums like speeches I'm
31:32really involved with like the finance
31:33and politics Club there they what do
31:36they talk about they invite like
31:37politicians New York politicians and
31:39like okay that's cool we have like
31:40seminar sessions which is pretty nice
31:41and finance like they teach you how to
31:43do build Financial models and like okay
31:45but that's like
31:47the yeah D employ dude recruiting starts
31:50like in uh first year of college no
31:52second year summer sophomore year so we
31:55got to be prepping for for that already
31:58um man you're going places no but like
32:01the but more like the like the fun part
32:03like I I think a lot of people they
32:06um they they um so there's this part
32:09there's this place in like part of like
32:11the it's called the Bob's library right
32:12like the the basement area a lot of
32:15people they go there and they they hang
32:17out and you know like they do fun stuff
32:20what you mean I me do everything you
32:24know just everything from you know like
32:25just kissing or like uh making out
32:28making out they make out yeah and um or
32:30or they just hang out you know they just
32:31have fun um they have alcohol and uh
32:35yeah I feel like that's like the like
32:37typical college but do you go to like um
32:40School parties you know like cuz I
32:43pretty sure you join a lot of clubs
32:44right like
32:45politics Club
32:47they or Gatherings like don't they do
32:50you join go to those parties I think you
32:52got to go to like frats you know yeah oh
32:54did you go to frats so there's like uh
32:56there's a there's a professional frats
32:58and there's actually like the party
32:59frats right um I apply for the
33:02professional frat I didn't get in
33:04unfortunately um I didn't apply for like
33:06the party frats though um but I feel
33:09like the Frat culture in New York is is
33:11not that you know it's not that problem
33:13cuz uh we we're really isolated there's
33:16no there's no campus for NYU you got to
33:18keep in mind we have like isolated
33:20buildings and we call that like NYU you
33:22know it's just like an area in New yor
33:23in like in middle of Manhattan so is it
33:26like different major have has different
33:28building yeah yeah yeah so for example
33:30my major I belong to the College of Arts
33:32and Sciences so we basically just go to
33:34like this one building and we just have
33:36classes there and then once you're once
33:38you're done with classes you just go
33:39back to your dorm or you just like I see
33:41U was the same in the middle of downtown
33:43just a building scatters around how how
33:46how so so after the class finished
33:48everybody just scattered out so there's
33:49not really it's hard to have a scho
33:52school spirit for me for us anyway back
33:55then I don't know about other people was
33:57it hard to make friends or it was it was
33:59I I it was lucky for me that I stayed in
34:02my dorm the first year so I met some
34:04people otherwise it was really hard to
34:05make new friends and I also went on
34:08Exchange program on my third year and
34:11then I met some really cool kids but
34:14they they were all from China but they
34:16were really cool because back then the
34:18situation was different right it was
34:202004 come on like the situation was
34:23different for sure so it was really cool
34:25back then yeah people crazy back then
34:27like they do well I I wasn't
34:30invited I I was not considered good
34:33looking I am not considered good looking
34:35so so I I I didn't get any um
34:38invitations oh but but they were really
34:41cool people and when we were in Europe
34:43they took me uh well we traveled
34:46together so yeah just enjoy your time
34:49you travel with your college buddies
34:50yeah that's so nice yeah backpacking
34:53together oh wow that's was fun yeah look
34:56for exchange programs if you got time
34:58well I don't know if you really because
35:00you're really career- driven so maybe
35:02your priori is a little bit different
35:04yeah I've considered one I've always
35:05wanted to like exchange back to I feel
35:07like to Taiwan no I feel like Japan
35:09Korea or Taiwan I I would say Europe was
35:12really fun oh really yeah cuz I in Japan
35:14I multiculture in Europe you can go to
35:17different cities with a lot of history
35:18so it's up to you because whatever you
35:20want just like there's no other period
35:23of time in your life that you can just
35:25travel around in Europe and worry free
35:27it's it's very rare for for like almost
35:30half a year right and using your parents
35:33money or your grandparents or my
35:35grandpar right just like literally it
35:38was a WorryFree period of my life so I'm
35:41I was I'm still very glad I made that
35:44choice to go on Exchange in Italy would
35:46you want to go back in time and like
35:47become a college student again or or are
35:49you like really happy with where you're
35:51at right now I'm happy with where I'm I
35:53am at right now cuz I recently I've only
35:56you know you know look back on my life
35:57when I was in college and I realized
36:00that I was in a state of depression and
36:02I didn't really know about it yeah I
36:04told Kye about this right CU I wasn't
36:06really happy like yeah it's as if
36:09there's a block of my memory of my
36:11college experience was gone cuz I I try
36:14not to think about it it was that bad no
36:17just like cuz I was it was my first time
36:20leaving my house right so I was living
36:21alone you know and the weather in
36:24Toronto wasn't helping you know oh yeah
36:26for sure pretty shitty and just a lot of
36:29pressure from from academic pressure cuz
36:32I wasn't doing that well in school so
36:34just like oh my God what Am I who am I
36:37what am I doing what am I doing why am I
36:38sucking so bad and I just kept eating
36:42to relieve my stress right the more I
36:44eat the bigger I get and the lower
36:46selfesteem I get and then the less I
36:49want to go out so it's just a it became
36:51a vicious cycle how did you build up
36:53like your self-esteem later
36:55on
36:57but no I'm just curious cuz like you
36:58said you said like when was like the
37:00time where you sort of realized that you
37:02know we should oh really like you should
37:05you should be like I should stop you
37:06know I'm I'm a man I got to do this and
37:08no not even that it's not in t for sure
37:11my bad my bad my not like you my my bad
37:15my bad oh my God it's more like ah it's
37:19like a year before I graduate I realized
37:21that okay I need to go get a job after
37:24this yeah to get a job I know I wouldn't
37:26get a job looking like that so what
37:29based on your appearance where were you
37:31in Canada or I was in Toronto yeah so I
37:33was like okay for real I will show you
37:35pictures you will not hire me period
37:38knew you were pretty cute and chubby
37:39back then saw my picture you wouldn't
37:42hire me I saw the pictures too if I I
37:44say say I have I want an internet Bingo
37:46you probably wouldn't hire me right CU I
37:49judge people based on their experience
37:51but uh I will hope you to get
37:55healthier wish all
37:57yeah I wasn't healthy right cuz so so
38:00yeah so I I tried to get healthy I
38:02started exercising I think exercising
38:05really helped to clear my head too and
38:07then it helped me to get more confidence
38:09and I lose weight got my job and then
38:11things started to go the other direction
38:13and I'm where I'm yeah I'm right now so
38:17wow that's that's really inspirational
38:19cuz I feel like I had like a similar
38:21path as you you woke up earlier uh low
38:25cuz I was like on the chubbier end back
38:28then uh when I was like 15 it was like 3
38:30years ago I was like 90 something
38:31kilogram I thought you're like cute and
38:33tall and everything you're 180 right 6
38:37190 uh no no no I think I'm 6'1 like
38:40last time no but like I was like 6 foot
38:42but I was like 90 something kilograms
38:45and I was really chubby I was no like
38:47you got to look at the photos um but I
38:49was definitely like the little baby fat
38:51that was it no I don't think it was a
38:52baby fat I was a I
38:54was it's like a like did you get bullied
38:58no not at all I never faced any
39:02social uh problems I I I would say I
39:05would consider myself to be like one of
39:07the popular kids in high school uh then
39:10why do you why do you
39:12have to you know now we're like three
39:15old parents oh really no like I remember
39:18like cuz like the first time I watched
39:19your videos it was a UB Jun I don't know
39:22I was like I was just chubby I was
39:24trying to get into politics you know I
39:26want to learn you know like I I I'm not
39:28sure what I want to do with my life and
39:30then so I wasn't really career- driven
39:32back then too uh I wasn't doing anything
39:35with my life you know I was 15 you were
39:3915 no but here's the thing i' I have a
39:41friend in California he started a
39:43company when he was 16 you
39:45can it depends on in which stage of your
39:49life that you want to Peak people can
39:51Peak during their like you know their
39:54early 20s or their late
39:56but there could also be people who Peak
39:59and they're 30s and I'm 40 I Peak at 40
40:03yeah
40:04no I mean everyone has their own paays
40:07yeah for sure I feel like looking back
40:08it was a really bad mentality you know
40:10like you compare yourself with other
40:11people and you think it's like a zero
40:12some game in in reality it's not right
40:14the pie is big enough for everyone to
40:17enjoy right like uh like someone else's
40:19success doesn't mean that you're a
40:20failure vice versa so um but I didn't
40:23know back then so I I had a really low
40:25self-esteem but like then same just like
40:29hen I started working out I eat healthy
40:31and you know like things start to add up
40:33and now I get like you get invitation
40:36to so this is just so how did the second
40:39one
40:40happen okay come backy really wants to
40:43know you really want to know like the
40:45second one um so like the second and
40:48third one sort of happened like at the
40:49same time huh how so it was like the
40:52same day it was the same day uh same day
40:55I could from the same group that the
40:59pink told them like oh he turned us down
41:01and then so the other girl tried
41:03to bro this is like Lau thing is how is
41:07it how you say oh my bad so I was in the
41:10Park Washington Square Park I was just
41:11sitting down um you know Larry the
41:14Birdman like basically there's this dude
41:15in in the in the park who always just he
41:18was feeding pigeons right and I wanted
41:20to have a conversation with him cuz
41:22apparently he killed someone 20 years a
41:24he killed two people 20 years ago go
41:26because those people killed their wife
41:28like his wife and his daughter and I was
41:30like yo I I want to interview this guy
41:32cuz this guy is just like he he's just
41:34there ever so you don't want to talk to
41:36random girls but you want to talk to oh
41:38no no no no I was just I was just
41:39sitting like that's the reason why I was
41:41sitting there cuz I don't usually sit in
41:42public areas I just go back to my dorm
41:44right so I was just sitting in the bench
41:46and there was just suddenly like there's
41:47this girl who came up to me and she cuz
41:50like the bench was like pretty long so
41:51she sat on like the other end of the
41:53bench and then she and she just sat
41:55there and for like 2 minutes minut after
41:562 minutes she was like hey I think
41:58you're kind of cute same thing M like
42:01the same line no no so so first of all
42:03she was
42:05like and I was like y I think I think
42:08this is like this is a criminal gang man
42:11okay first but okay saw right yeah
42:13that's weird that's weird I mean I think
42:15you're cute but like not on the same
42:21day abely too much you're absolutely
42:24right I understand you being to me but
42:27you
42:28Benji bro but I don't know I was just
42:31minding my business and yeah I was I was
42:33like no I've never like in back in high
42:35school and no girls talk to me right I
42:38wasn't popular well but if if it's like
42:41what you said back then you were kind of
42:43chubby so it makes sense but now you're
42:45taller you have I think the latter part
42:46I was like the same okay yeah and and
42:49then um not I'm not like d I'm not like
42:53uh what's his name like I don't know I'm
42:54not like those K-pop you know like maybe
42:56because you look kind of Korean maybe
42:59maybe I don't know but they started
43:00saying
43:03started yeah
43:05and I was like yeah just say no okay but
43:10I didn't know where she was going at
43:11maybe she that's true you don't assume
43:13everybody's inviting you I me yeah you
43:15don't just sit in the park one day and
43:16then just yeah you know
43:18so Peggy come on Peggy come on but yeah
43:22yeah yeah uh and then she was like oh yo
43:24I think you're kind of cute again she
43:25said this
43:32y something's not something adding
43:35something is adding up man and I was
43:36like no okay yeah yeah I'm not open to
43:38anything so we apologize for what we
43:41said
43:41earlier we need to
43:44record apologize I know oh yeah and I
43:47was like I I think I know where this is
43:49going and I was like what what's what's
43:51going on cuz I have like the exact like
43:54this like there's a different girl who
43:55ask me the exact same thing so you told
43:57her I told her and she was
43:59like I was like okay first of all I'm I
44:02don't think that maybe maybe I'm
44:04confident but I'm not like you know I'm
44:06not a star or anything like like that
44:08right and she was like no I'm just I
44:09just think you're cute can can I have
44:10your weij head and I was like okay do
44:12you guys what are you going to invite me
44:14to like parties and stuff she was like
44:16yeah I mean if you want you know like we
44:17could we could have parties and I was
44:19like I was like what parties like what
44:21are you trying to do I was I was
44:22actually a bit like interrogation mode
44:24no I was I was kind of angry actually
44:27cuz I I really don't like how I just
44:29don't like people approaching me that
44:31like especially in New York you never
44:32know what's
44:33happening true yeah like there's there
44:35just coming up to you with like they
44:37want something from you and you know
44:38that right and but you still have to
44:40talk to them
44:41so yeah I don't want to be I don't want
44:44to be in polite but and she was like
44:45yeah I can invite you to some party I
44:46was like are these parties just like
44:48parties or are or is it like you know
44:51you have like weed alcohol she was like
44:52yeah sometimes weed sometimes alcohol
44:54but yeah I mean like what we do is we we
44:56invite people that we want to meet and
44:58then you know we make we become friends
45:00and you know we hang out you know I was
45:01like they charge $60 too no I I'm I'm
45:04not sure I'm not sure whether they
45:05charge $60 or not and and she was like
45:07yeah you just I was like this is
45:09definitely one of the sex parties you
45:11know I was like I was like no thank you
45:12so I didn't I I didn't at there we chat
45:15later that night um I was back in my
45:17dorm in the public area too same and
45:20then and then again like the Chinese
45:21people in groups of 30 right like
45:24they're playing games and then and one
45:26of the girls came up to me and then they
45:28now were those that people you know
45:30before uh do you think those girls go to
45:32your school or they're just Outsiders no
45:34they're definitely NYU cuz you got to be
45:36NYU student to be in my like in the in
45:38the student dorm so they can bring
45:40friends inside they probably could you
45:42might have to register but uh they they
45:44told me where they're from like which
45:46like which department they're from right
45:49um and there's no reason to doubt that
45:50I'm starting to doubt that yeah I don't
45:52know man sorry uh continue I can show
45:54you the pictures later on but they don't
45:55look sketchy at all um but like the
45:58third girl she was like hey uh do you
46:00want to play table tennis together cuz
46:03uh my friend just left uh and I I wanted
46:06to play table tennis I was like sure we
46:08could play we could play um and she
46:09started playing with me how long after
46:11was this yeah like the same day yeah all
46:14three oh no sorry the last two um it was
46:16during midterm so I don't know um like
46:19one or two months before this and then
46:22and then I just started playing tiple
46:23tennis with her right and after an hour
46:26we chatted during during like thing it
46:27was pretty natural right and she was
46:29like y do you have the Instagram can I
46:30add your Instagram Instagram is okay
46:32right no but also also we chat she asked
46:34me do you have WeChat or Instagram I was
46:35like yeah yeah uh let's how WeChat then
46:39and then she added me and right after I
46:41got back into my room she she texted me
46:44and she was like thank you so much for
46:46today I was like oh thank you yeah well
46:48that's nice nice it was really nice
46:51after three days she texted me again and
46:53she was like do you want to hang out and
46:55I I I thought it was like a date right I
46:57was like yeah just us like you know and
47:01and then she was like yeah we we could
47:02we could go on on on like a hang out and
47:04we can watch some movies I was like yeah
47:05I mean that's how you normally approach
47:07someone right I was like normal this
47:10more normal very healthy and then I
47:12rejected her though cuz I Was preparing
47:14for a test um but then later on she
47:17called me again I was like why why you
47:20dude everyone calls in New York for some
47:21reason like they just just yeah in a
47:23hurry I there's always in a hurry I'm
47:26not sure man um but she called me and I
47:28I picked up and she was like yo I'm
47:30right I'm I'm at it like this apartment
47:33you know we're having a party yeah do
47:35you want to join you can meet more
47:36people here I was like oh my God uh uh I
47:40was like it's a trap bro this sounds
47:43like dude there's definitely something
47:45Shady going on I was like no thank you
47:47you got a Target on your back man yeah I
47:49don't know they Rich time these no I'm
47:53not rich I'm not oh maybe like the third
47:55one might not be like a weed or sex
47:57party does she still have your Instagram
48:00no I didn't add her on Instagram because
48:02uh I didn't want her to I feel like I
48:03post a lot of my family on Instagram I
48:05posted my sister and I don't want her to
48:06like have contact or anything right
48:08right that's actually what the news was
48:09about they say because these days people
48:11are so public about their private
48:13private life on social media so it's
48:16very easy for these scammers to Target
48:19you and know how to approach to her
48:21family oh damn is that how they did it
48:23like is is is that the approach that
48:25they took for the Utah kid did they find
48:27him like social media they didn't really
48:29go into detail but they just say all
48:31these are things that people should be
48:33more aware of and they even give like a
48:35little little tip that I highlighted on
48:37was that they say you can actually have
48:39like a safety word with your family so
48:43first off they send you this picture
48:45call your family and they'll kind of
48:47like taiwan's scams they'll make like a
48:49kid crying or Screaming in the
48:50background and say if you don't transfer
48:53the the money then we'll just hurt hurt
48:54this person so it would get the family
48:57all freaked out and then starting to
48:59like okay okay try to calm the the
49:01person down actually my dad has been
49:03told us this like we always have like a
49:05safety word in our family so just just
49:08just in case if anything happened we
49:09have this word that will say so my D
49:12know whe yes yeah this video was about
49:16like sex parties but now it's more of
49:17like an educational video educational
49:20that's all educ was my it was original
49:23intention yeah for sure all right bye
49:27bye see you next time
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