00:00 how do they say you get perfect
00:02 as practice but that's a lie and you
00:06 know why it's a lie because everyone
00:08 says I'm an amazing speaker but we've
00:10 all been speaking our whole lives most
00:12 of you been speaking long a lot of you
00:13 been speaking longer than me so why am I
00:17 difference you watch yourself stud I
00:20 watch myself feedback study if you don't
00:23 study you won't get better I'll give you
00:26 an example I'm [ __ ] at Jess compared to
00:28 my dad I hover between 1600 ELO when I'm
00:32 really mad like an idiot and 18800 ELO
00:34 in Blitz I play three minute Blitz Games
00:37 I've been between 1600 and 1800 ELO for
00:40 about eight years even though I play
00:41 chess for about half an hour a day I
00:43 never get better why because I never
00:45 analyze the games when my dad would
00:48 train me we'd sit down and do the boring
00:50 an analysis why what could you have done
00:52 it's to analyze it's to feedback that
00:54 makes you better why as a fighter if you
00:57 just Spar every day will you'll never be
00:59 good because you don't train train it's
01:01 feedback that makes you good at things
01:02 not practice you have to practice then
01:05 feedback always and communication is one
01:08 of the most important things because
01:09 it's something you do every single day
01:10 all of the time if you're G to get good
01:12 at one thing you may get good at the
01:14 thing you do most often and you're all
01:16 talking all the time so you may as well
01:18 get good at it so you have to analyze
01:21 yourself that's the reason I said this
01:22 um and a thing to make it difficult for
01:24 you I understand it's nervous I
01:26 understand you're up here and you're
01:26 talking in front of people and it's
01:28 nerve-wracking but you should be going
01:30 through your life in general catching
01:32 yourself doing it and not allowing
01:33 yourself to do it cuz that feedback it
01:36 won't take long it'll take 3 months
01:38 until you find a way to just stop saying
01:39 it and it's so unique that you don't
01:42 realize how many people you're speaking
01:44 to who do it until you stop it's like
01:46 saying have you ever seen a red car and
01:48 then you drive down the road and every
01:49 car's red when I sit and listen to
01:51 somebody I'm literally listening to them
01:52 thinking [ __ ] you know you've been
01:54 speaking your whole life you're a dummy
01:57 right because I don't do it anymore so
02:00 it's a pet peeve of mine almost but you
02:02 have to self-analyze yourself all of the
02:04 time don't allow yourself to get away
02:05 with it when you're not in this
02:06 environment it sounds like a small thing
02:09 but I'm telling you when you can
02:10 compendiously concisely explain your
02:12 point of view when you can do what I do
02:14 which is Machine Gun Five Points at once
02:18 especially in a debate it's very hard to
02:20 argue against me if you give me a minute
02:22 I've made Five Points and linked it into
02:23 two older points and I've hinted at a
02:25 future point and now you have to counter
02:27 that and you're like uh uh you're a
02:30 misogynist you can't argue with me
02:32 that's why the BBC got wrecked so you
02:34 have to be very good if I if I was
02:35 saying on my BBC interview uh uh it
02:38 would have been over I could have said
02:40 the same things with a couple ums and AZ
02:42 it would have been over I'm the worst
02:43 man in the world so it's battle it's War
02:46 so I want you to all become very very
02:48 good with your speech because it's an
02:49 easy thing it's not difficult it's not
02:50 fighting you're not getting hit stop
02:52 saying um stop saying ah how do you
02:55 structure it you need a pause to think
02:58 so what I will do is I will either
03:00 literally take a pause and stop and a
03:04 lot of that is body language to allow
03:05 yourself to be given the time to do that
03:07 or the second thing I'll do if I make a
03:08 mistake is I'll repeat myself so I'll
03:11 say so I'll say something like there's
03:13 an example so I'll say so I'll say that
03:15 sounds better than going so I'll say um
03:18 and I know English isn't always your
03:20 first language I know for some of you
03:21 people I'm not as hard because English
03:22 isn't your first language I completely
03:23 get that it's also the reason I refuse
03:25 to speak another language because I
03:26 speak English so well that I don't want
03:27 to degrade if you want to speak to me my
03:30 language it's my Battlefield I win but
03:33 English is the language of the world so
03:34 you may as well get very very good at it
03:35 and it will translate to all of your
03:37 personal relationships your arguments
03:39 will become shorter you'll make more
03:41 money everything is from communication
03:43 that's why I have a stick and that's why
03:45 I have a pet PE for ums and A's because
03:47 it's the easiest way to just improve
03:49 your overall status because you also
03:50 come across extremely confident when you
03:52 don't use um and a you look like you
03:53 know exactly what you're talking about
03:55 when you don't use I'm and a if I say
03:57 What's 2 plus two and you go um four you
03:59 look dumb if I say What's 2 plus two and
04:01 you go four you look smart the um makes
04:03 you look like an idiot so it's a it's a
04:06 pet peeve of mine I just said it's twice
04:09 I just did it so I'm self analyzing
04:11 myself all the time to make sure I don't
04:13 do that so that's why I've said it
04:14 before this to make it hard for all of
04:16 you when you stand up here and you're
04:17 nervous you start going um um um but in
04:20 General Life try not to do it because
04:21 you'll see your life improve you'll see
04:22 your interactions with people improve in
04:24 real time you'll know I'll give the game
04:25 away I'll give the game away to the
04:27 entire YouTube World why I've destroyed
04:28 absolutely everybody any debate ever I
04:31 say things that they know are true and
04:32 that they agree with but I say in a way
04:34 that angers them emotionally and they
04:35 get caught up in their brain because
04:37 they're saying he's saying the truth but
04:39 I'm pissed off by how he's saying it so
04:41 I want to argue with him but he's right
04:43 so instead of saying men are physically
04:46 stronger than women I'll say females are
04:48 weak what you females are weak well
04:51 females are weak females are weak men
04:52 are strong females are weak no but
04:54 females but I'm right and he knows I'm
04:56 right but he's mad now and so is she and
04:58 they sit there and you'll happen happen
05:00 on Dave pory you end up having a whole
05:02 group of people sitting there trying to
05:04 argue well some women are strong like
05:06 men trying to argue the fact that women
05:08 are as strong as men physically because
05:10 I've emotionally controlled them all and
05:12 upset them all and then I do a podcast
05:13 and I get billions and millions of views
05:15 and unlimited likes against good
05:17 Debaters like Dave and his little crew
05:19 by just emotionally controlling them
05:20 it's an emotional game I wreck them I've
05:22 never given this game way before anyway
05:24 but this is what I do I sit there and I
05:26 say something they know is true in a way
05:27 they can't agree with it and I [ __ ]
05:30 because they're stupid if I was me I'd
05:32 be like yeah okay I perhaps I don't like
05:33 the way you phrased it but you're very
05:34 you're very true that takes intellect
05:36 people are emotional so this is why I
05:38 wreck all of them and you're right I
05:39 poke them on purpose and it makes it
05:41 very difficult to argue with me
05:42 especially if they agree with what I'm
05:43 saying but they don't like the way it's
05:44 being said that's where you see the full
05:46 breakdowns the full mental breakdown I
05:49 use perspicacious a lot indefatigable I
05:51 use a lot I have favorite words I use
05:53 compend is one of your favorite words is
05:55 another word I like to use compend what
05:56 is that what is that compend means uh
05:58 presenting information in a concise way
06:02 compend so I'll I'll often say like I'm
06:04 a professional I'm particularly compend
06:06 and I'm concise got you I'll say that
06:08 I'm I'm a professional I'm particularly
06:09 compend and I'm concise and then I'll
06:11 make my point so regardless what the
06:12 point is before I made the point I sound
06:14 like a genius right so so uh Angel do
06:16 you have like a where you where you
06:18 picking these five words from you just
06:19 going in the dictionary and just going
06:21 there's a bunch of uh uh free email list
06:23 you go get from dictionary.com that give
06:25 you word of the day oh okay play I'm
06:27 going to put even on Patrick's um on
06:30 Patrick's Twitter status he said
06:32 describe the Matrix in one word and I
06:33 said beguilement the word I chose that
06:36 was a word I on a week ago a week that
06:38 was a perfect just put it right there
06:40 beilan means to amuse or distract away
06:43 from wickedness or danger not many
06:45 people know this but I used to sell
06:46 Windows you know the old school knock on
06:48 the door window sales I did window sales
06:51 for two or three years and I'd say this
06:53 is one of the hardest jobs you could
06:54 possibly do and I would always recommend
06:56 a young man if he has some time to waste
06:57 to go sell windows and the reason it's
07:01 fantastic because I'll tell you why it's
07:03 the hardest one to sell because one
07:05 nobody wants them two they don't know
07:08 who you are and three even if you
07:10 convince them that they need Windows
07:13 after them not knowing who you are then
07:15 they go to all your competitors and then
07:16 it becomes a price War it's a nightmare
07:18 it's the hardest sales job if you're
07:20 selling a Lambo at least they want the
07:21 lambo right nobody wants glass and
07:23 plastic they already have windows so you
07:26 got to find a way to sell them these
07:27 windows how do you do that
07:29 and that's where all this master
07:30 communication comes in and it's so many
07:33 subtle little things being a good
07:34 salesman is not necessarily being a liar
07:36 it's not being a trickster it's just
07:38 understanding what's going to make the
07:39 person believe and understand what you
07:41 say if I walked in and said would you
07:43 like new windows and they essentially
07:45 said no we don't need new windows our
07:46 Windows look fine I would say but what
07:49 about the security aspect while looking
07:51 at their three-year-old
07:52 child and they'd sit there and go uh
07:54 what do you mean security aspect and
07:56 then I talk about how we had the lock
07:57 5,000 and their locks are easy to break
07:59 break as if glasses and glass it's all
08:01 the same anyway and you'd end up selling
08:03 the windows you have to find the
08:04 triggers in people there's another thing
08:06 people don't understand about me in my
08:07 message sometimes I sit here and I say
08:08 things that piss people off because
08:09 that's how you trigger people to make
08:11 action I have often written emails or
08:14 done videos to especially to men when I
08:16 want to help men to piss them off you're
08:19 a loser you're a dumbass Andrew why do
08:21 you mean because you're not going to go
08:23 to the gym unless I tell you you're a
08:24 [ __ ] loser and you are a loser and
08:25 I'm not lying to you you are a loser the
08:27 emotional trigger you need to get up off
08:29 that chair is the fact that you're not
08:30 important nobody cares who you are any
08:32 girl you're ever in love with I could
08:33 take and you're insignificant and when
08:34 you die nobody's interested that's your
08:36 fault you could have been something else
08:38 you did that you failed that has to be
08:40 done you have to be a master
08:42 communicator and sometimes that involves
08:43 also insulting people to be a master of
08:45 communicating you also you also need
08:48 experiences worth talking about you have
08:50 to live a life you need a degree of
08:52 wisdom and wisdom doesn't always come
08:54 with age it comes with life lived I had
08:56 a guy messaged me this is a long time
08:59 ago when I used to reply to my own
09:00 emails too big now but he said I don't
09:03 have any stories my life's boring I said
09:05 bro where do you live he said in Madrid
09:07 I said bro ride the train from Madrid to
09:08 St Petersburg ride the train from Madrid
09:11 to vosto do the Trans Siberian Railway
09:14 cost you like 300 bucks go oh but what
09:16 if I get robbed exactly that's exactly
09:18 the point what if you get robbed now you
09:21 have a story maybe you'll die maybe you
09:23 won't but you have a story don't bring
09:25 your watch if you got a Rox no no one
09:28 wants to rob you anyway don't don't
09:29 worry about it you're broky get on the
09:30 train there has to be that degree of
09:32 risk to even have a story because when
09:33 you have a story then you can
09:35 story a lot you can't be an empty vessel
09:38 either so when you say to you're telling
09:40 me how I build this 20-year-old into a
09:41 super soldier yeah he has to be a master
09:43 communicator but he also has to do
09:44 things which are risky risk has value
09:46 intrinsically linked to it intrinsically
09:48 this is why people when you do risky
09:50 things people want to hear the story
09:51 your coolest stories involve risk
09:53 something went wrong this could have
09:55 happened I almost this I made it out
09:58 without the risk you haven't got it so I
10:00 would say to the 20-year-old do what I
10:02 did get in the cage get in the ring
10:04 knock someone out get knocked out train
10:06 hard fighting will teach you everything
10:08 you need to know about life you'll learn
10:09 everything about who you truly are you
10:11 learn if you're a coward or not you
10:12 learn everything about perseverance and
10:13 hard work and dedication everything
10:15 about being underappreciated you learn
10:17 everything about fear you learn all of
10:19 it you learn everything about people you
10:21 win a fight check your phone lose a
10:23 fight check your phone you learn all
10:24 about people you learn all about them
10:27 you learn all about women I learned so
10:30 much about women through fighting when I
10:32 had a fight coming up and I was I was
10:33 weight drained and I had barely eaten in
10:35 in weeks and I'd lost all this weight
10:37 and I had a a world title fight and I'm
10:39 fighting a guy who might kill me and
10:41 she's complaining about the toilet seat
10:42 I learn all about women you learn a lot
10:45 about life through the through these
10:47 difficult processes and paths and there
10:49 used to be for men like a right of
10:51 passage in most societies you had to go
10:53 through something to become a man from a
10:54 boy to a man but that thing was always
10:57 difficult it's always been difficult now
10:59 you have to self-induce it self-inflict
11:00 it but if you're going to be a boy and
11:02 never IND never bring on that
11:03 self-inflicted right of passage how you
11:04 going to ever become a man what what I
11:06 like to consider myself a master of is
11:07 making information palatable you'll see
11:10 in a lot of my interviews I say things
11:12 that are very controversial but it's
11:13 very it's very unusual I get into an
11:15 outright argument I'm quite I famous it
11:18 in I smooth it you understand the game
11:20 there you know and I say it and they get
11:22 a bit mad especially with chicks they
11:24 get a bit mad when I come at a bit spin
11:26 I say something I compliment them a
11:27 little bit and say oh no you actually
11:28 had a good point but I'm kind of like
11:30 famose and by the end of it they're all
11:31 like well he is right that I just I get
11:33 it in you know what it's like when you
11:35 got when you got something big you got
11:37 try to make it get in I think in the
11:38 modern world where arrogance is
11:39 constantly frowned upon of course you
11:41 know we all know arrogant [ __ ] who we
11:43 don't like but arrogance with complete
11:45 competence can actually be quite
11:47 comforting and I think sometimes when
11:49 I'm saying things I put them in such an
11:51 arrogant tone to give them validity so
11:53 give an example let's say you're about
11:54 to get on a plane and the plane's about
11:57 to fly through the eye of a hurricane
11:59 when I if I were to meet my pilot I
12:01 would love him to be an arrogant [ __ ]
12:02 I love him to be like bro all I do is
12:04 fly planes hurricane please I'm the G
12:06 I'm the boss you're worried what you
12:07 worried about hurricane little bit
12:09 nature I got Wings bro all I do is fly
12:11 planes you don't know me I'm like i' I'd
12:13 love that much more than oh it's going
12:14 to be he going to be choppy you know
12:16 what I'm saying no I know ex I'll be
12:18 like give me the Arrogant guy all day
12:22 it's quite comforting to sit there and
12:23 go you know what he was so confident
12:25 there's no way he can crash now cuz he
12:27 look like an idiot and and he's dead
12:29 look stupid on top so sometimes I think
12:31 arrogance especially if it's if you're
12:33 competent and it's delivered correctly
12:36 and maybe you put a little bit of humor
12:37 in I think it' be quite comforting and
12:38 it can also in many ways get your idea
12:40 across quite effectively I'm arrogant to
12:42 project ideas it doesn't mean it's false
12:45 it doesn't mean I don't mean it but my
12:46 Persona has evolved over time to the
12:49 point where when I'm telling somebody
12:50 something they don't want to hear or
12:52 they don't believe in because the clown
12:54 world has told them everything else
12:56 their entire life the only way I can get
12:57 it in their brain sometimes just to be
12:59 so solid about it like the sky is blue
13:03 they're like no it's green like listen
13:04 [ __ ] it's blue it's blue there's
13:06 being understood and there's being
13:07 listened to yeah and I can be listened
13:09 to when I speak you know stand in front
13:11 of the mirror find somebody I mean find
13:14 somebody who you like the the sound of
13:16 listen to an audio book yeah an audio
13:18 book of of a topic you're interested in
13:20 because the audio books always read by
13:21 very talented voice actors you in almost
13:24 100% of cases and repeat after
13:27 them they say line slow down breathe you
13:30 say the line perfect instead of in
13:32 instead of I don't know and get it right
13:34 yeah exactly you know until you get it
13:35 it's the same as martial art yeah
13:37 exactly if you if you speak badly if you
13:38 say oh the bottle of champagne is ice
13:40 cold okay okay no no one heard you and
13:42 you hear in a book the bottle of
13:43 champagne was ice cold repeat the way he
13:46 says it read read it again and again
13:49 listen to it again and again and try to
13:50 learn from voice actors and other people
13:52 who have good voices Etc not even me I
13:54 don't have the best voice in the world
13:55 I'm not the best speaker in the world
13:56 there are much better people out there
13:57 there are what was his name guy went
14:00 viral on Tik Tok can't remember he was
14:01 just reading lines from movies but
14:03 people have people have very very good
14:06 talent speaking talents I give myself a
14:08 eight out of 10 because I'm very
14:10 self-critical but I could speak well
14:11 enough but if you can't work on it
14:13 because that really matters if you want
14:15 to be the man and you want to command a
14:16 room and you want to be a man with
14:18 presence maybe you want to I don't know
14:19 seduce a beautiful woman whatever it is
14:21 you want to do in life being able to
14:23 communicate your ideas helps a million
14:25 times over especially in business money
14:27 you know this you cannot communicate
14:28 your ideas you could be the most
14:30 brilliant man in the world if you sound
14:32 like an idiot then you sound like an
14:33 idiot irregardless of what you say so
14:35 learn to communicate it's exceptionally
