00:00it has never been harder to win than
00:03right now why because every single day
00:07you are frying your brain you are
00:10killing your attention span and you are
00:12killing your focus you're killing your
00:16testosterone and because of all of that
00:19you are killing your success the average
00:21person has a worse attention span than a
00:24goldfish and that's who you're competing
00:26against so on the good news that means
00:28that just with the tiniest bit of
00:30discipline and work ethic you are
00:32already ahead of 90% of people and
00:34before we even begin you need to
00:36understand that your ability to control
00:39your urges is directly correlated to
00:41your success or lack thereof if you
00:44cannot control yourself if you cannot be
00:47disciplined you will never be successful
00:50it is simply impossible and that is why
00:53it's so important for you to master your
00:56urges and all of that starts with
00:58desexualizing your brain so that you are
01:01no longer ruled by your primate brain so
01:05today I'm going to give you the only six
01:07steps you need to desexualize your brain
01:10and regain control of your life because
01:12it's having that very control over your
01:15mind your body and your life that will
01:17ultimately lead you to success now
01:20here's the interesting part truly
01:22desexualizing your brain actually has
01:25very little to do with sex and has
01:27everything to do with something else but
01:29I will get to that a little later in the
01:31video so for now let's get into it the
01:33first step is to stop watching porn
01:36first and foremost you need to stop
01:38watching porn now listen this may sound
01:41obvious yet 99% of young people simply
01:44cannot stop I would say that watching
01:46porn is by far the worst way which you
01:49sexualize your brain and let me explain
01:51to you why you see the problem isn't
01:54just the amount of time that you spend
01:55watching porn I mean sure if you stopped
01:58you'd have an extra hour per week or or
01:59something like that but that's just a
02:01very minuscule side effect compared to
02:03the rest you see porn literally fries
02:06your brain and robs you a focus don't
02:08believe me just look at the science
02:11there have been multiple studies that
02:12link porn usage to the erosion of your
02:15prefrontal cortex you know that part of
02:17your brain that regulates your emotions
02:20your actions and more importantly your
02:22impulse control and willpower but that
02:25is just the tip of the iceberg there is
02:28a laundry list of negative side effects
02:31that have been linked to porn use why
02:33because porn use has similar effects on
02:36the brain as substance abuse porn has
02:38been linked to issues like decreased
02:40focused and increased anxiety and
02:43depression now as if these problems
02:45weren't big enough porn has also been
02:48linked to trouble in long-term
02:50relationships and of course impotency in
02:53fact there is an epidemic of young men
02:56who are experiencing sexual issues like
02:58erectile dysfunction because their brain
03:01has been rewired it's unfortunate
03:03because these young men have consumed so
03:05much porn that their neural Pathways
03:08have literally changed I mean they've
03:10effectively trained themselves to be
03:12aroused by watching others do the deed
03:14instead of doing it themselves and porn
03:16users even reported that they are less
03:19satisfied with their lives than their
03:21counterparts who don't watch porn now
03:24the second step in desexualizing your
03:26brain goes hand inand with quitting porn
03:29and that is you need to stop pleasuring
03:31yourself look I understand it's
03:33addictive and I understand that it's
03:35been normalized in today's day and age
03:37but there is nothing healthy or normal
03:39about it and not even because the very
03:41Act is so terrible as it is with porn
03:43it's actually just because the
03:45consequences of it you see every time
03:47you do it your dopamine surges I mean
03:49you're pretty much signaling to your
03:51brain that you have accomplished what is
03:53supposed to be man's highest goal to
03:55procreate you are essentially telling
03:58your brain that you've done the most
03:59most important thing you'll do all day
04:02now of course you and I both know that
04:04that's not true but the neurons firing
04:06in your brain do not and that is why you
04:09are rewarded for it that is why it's
04:11cheap dopamine because you are tricking
04:13your own brain into giving you dopamine
04:16you have not earned and that's why your
04:18ability to focus and your ability to do
04:20hard things plummets because how do you
04:23think that the real world will stack up
04:25to the dopamine and other chemical
04:27releases that you're getting from doing
04:29the the very thing we have been
04:31evolutionarily designed to do well the
04:33answer is it won't stack up at all I
04:36mean no wonder you can't focus when your
04:38dopamine receptors are so fried this is
04:42why you can't focus I mean listen of
04:44course everything else will feel boring
04:46when you've just done the dirty business
04:48and this is why you need to stop so you
04:51ask yourself why do so many young men
04:53keep doing it because they are addicted
04:57they are addicted to cheap dopamine in
04:59the exact same way that people get
05:01addicted to drugs I mean in fact port
05:03and masturbation are the most difficult
05:06addictions to break why because of the
05:09insane dopamine Spike that is caused by
05:12it so real quick let's just look at the
05:13data if you eat a delicious burger or
05:16some other carb filled meal your
05:18dopamine levels will Spike by 100% now
05:21if you smoke or get some other form of
05:23nicotine your dopamine will Spike by
05:25200% whereas porn and masturbation
05:28boosts your dopamine by over
05:31250% the exact same is sex now here's
05:34the key difference porn and masturbation
05:37will then make your dopamine levels fall
05:39way below Baseline and that's where
05:40those lethargic feelings come from after
05:43that's the exact same dopamine curve you
05:45get from drugs so then that really
05:47starts to beg the question how the hell
05:49do you stop and here is where it gets
05:52interesting you see an addiction to por
05:54and masturbation isn't actually rooted
05:56in anything sexual at all and that leads
05:58us onto the Third step of how you can
06:01desexualize your brain number three
06:03purpose now they actually did a study
06:06where they tried to figure out what
06:07causes these addictions and the answer
06:11may surprise you you see it wasn't
06:13actually any form of perversion it
06:15wasn't childhood trauma it wasn't
06:17extraordinary libido instead it was
06:20something far simpler far more
06:23rudimentary it was meaninglessness
06:25simply put if you don't have a purpose
06:28if you don't have a goal if you don't
06:29have something that you are striving
06:31towards then you are more likely to
06:33devolve in these addictions now the good
06:35news is it's fixable every man should
06:37have that purpose that North Star that
06:39drives him forward you simply need
06:42something better to do with your time
06:44than giv to your urges what that
06:46something is will depend on the person
06:49now from an early age we are taught that
06:51we need a good college education and a
06:54corporate job as though that's somehow
06:56going to fulfill us but we both know
06:58that that's definitely not not true is
07:00it in fact that's not true at all and
07:03from October 30th to November 6th I'm
07:05going to expose how and why you have
07:08been indoctrinated to believe this and
07:11most importantly I'm going to show you
07:12how to escape their indoctrination and
07:14earn back your freedom so if you want to
07:17be a part of that free online event then
07:19sign up with the link below anyways we
07:22all need something to guide us for some
07:26it'll be starting a business for others
07:28it might be something entirely different
07:31I can tell you that for me personally my
07:32North Star was to be able to take care
07:34of my mom and my loved ones and that is
07:36why I went into business because I had
07:38that North Star to guide me and honestly
07:41without that North Star I can
07:42confidently say that I would have given
07:44up because the money isn't enough to
07:46keep you going you need that North Star
07:49you need that why that purpose but even
07:52then once you have your purpose you may
07:54still slip up why because there are
07:57triggers out there that cause you to do
07:59so and this leads into our fourth step
08:02in desexualizing your brain step number
08:04four stop watching soft porn you see
08:08soft porn can be just as bad as porn
08:10because it's everywhere everywhere you
08:13look there are half naked girls I mean
08:16you scroll endlessly through Tik Tok and
08:18Instagram and the algorithm is
08:20reinforced by your desire to look at
08:23these girls and that is why I need you
08:24to unfollow all of the Instagram models
08:27unfollow all the Tik Tok girls to do
08:29their little dances because they are
08:31eating away at your focus they are
08:34destroying your future and it may seem
08:37minuscule to you but it's not you see
08:39most of the time you don't just randomly
08:41decide to watch porn there is a trigger
08:44and that's why the best way to quit porn
08:45is by eliminating the triggers that make
08:48you watch it and that means you need to
08:51also stop watching soft porn and every
08:54time the algorithm shows you half naked
08:56girls simply click not interest Ed train
09:00the algorithm to not show you those
09:03things and listen of course the best
09:04case scenario is you just quit Tik Tok
09:06and Instagram alog together because
09:08really at the end of the day you have no
09:10business looking at memes or whatever
09:12else if you are not where you want to be
09:14in life and if these social media
09:15platforms don't directly help your
09:17business but in any case The Next Step
09:20you need to take in order to desexualize
09:22your brain is to focus Inward and not
09:25outward you see the biggest problem with
09:27the sexualization of your brain
09:29stems from the changes that are
09:31happening in your dopamine system the
09:33sexualization of your brain impairs your
09:35ability to do hard work because your
09:37brain becomes so used to cheap dopamine
09:39and that's why the next step requires
09:41you to learn delayed gratification
09:43instead of constantly looking outwards
09:45for stimulus and dopamine you need to
09:48learn to look inward now you might be
09:51asking what does that actually mean it
09:53means that 99% of people get their
09:55so-called Happiness by doing fun things
09:58whether those things be a Sinister as
09:59porn or as innocent as chocolate but if
10:02you truly want to be successful that
10:05cannot be you now I'm not saying that
10:06you need to cut every single source of
10:09dopamine from your life but you
10:10definitely need to think about what's
10:12helping you and what's hurting you and
10:14over the years I routinely do a dopamine
10:17detox this is where for a certain amount
10:18of time usually between 24 to 72 hours
10:21you do nothing no food no phone not even
10:24books or music and certainly no porn
10:28just complete Stillness you need to
10:30become used to finding peace without
10:32these external stimuli because the goal
10:34is for you to be so fulfilled by your
10:36work that you eventually get those same
10:38dopamine releases by doing hard things
10:41you see dopamine is nothing but a reward
10:43system it's the way that your brain has
10:45evolved to reinforce behaviors that will
10:48increase your chances of survival and
10:50that is why sex spikes your dopam so
10:53much because without procreation I mean
10:55we wouldn't exist but in today's world
10:58social media and food has hijacked those
11:01same systems and that is why it is your
11:02job to regain your control over them so
11:05stop seeking cheap dopamine externally
11:08and instead look Inward and that is how
11:11you desexualize your brain and realign
11:13your actions with your goals now the
11:15final thing is you need to stop chasing
11:17women and build yourself first listen
11:20you will never be able to truly Focus
11:22inward if you are constantly chasing
11:24women if you're texting this girl
11:26meeting up with that girl all while
11:28thinking about some other girls you will
11:30never be focused that is not how you
11:32desexualize your brain which is exactly
11:34why I always say that you need to stop
11:36chasing women and build yourself up
11:39first the best part is when you do
11:40eventually build yourself into man of
11:42substance the women just inevitably come
11:45to you but until you get to that level
11:46chasing women is just a massive waste of
11:49time unless it's your day one girl
11:51unless you know hey this girl this will
11:54be my future wife but if that isn't you
11:56it's a waste of time for two reasons
11:58number one the quality of women you can
12:00get at the beginning of your journey is
12:02nothing compared to what you'll be able
12:04to get later down the line you see women
12:06date up in the social hierarchy which
12:08means the best quality women will
12:10inevitably end up with the best quality
12:12men so that's why you need to spend time
12:14molding yourself to be the best version
12:17of yourself that you could possibly be
12:19and I'm not only talking about just
12:21money here by the way now the second
12:22reason it's a waste is because if you
12:23somehow manage to get a highquality girl
12:26the amount of effort and time that it
12:27will take you is massive so you really
12:30need to analyze the opportunity cost
12:32here because going on a date with a girl
12:33spending $100 or a few hundred bucks to
12:36try to impress her has far greater
12:38complications look I'm not saying you
12:40should be an antisocial weirdo but you
12:42need to set your priorities straight
12:44listen in the same way that they tell
12:45you to put on your own oxygen mask first
12:47in the plane you need to be able to hold
12:50your own before you let someone else
12:52into your life because listen at the end
12:53of the day dating is a massive
12:56distraction and when you're first
12:57getting started in your business or your
12:59career you'll need all the time and
13:01focus that you can muster because no
13:03step of the journey is harder than the
13:05first one and that is why you need
13:07undivided attention I mean listen after
13:09all you just need 1 to 3 years of pure
13:12focus and then you can live a normal
13:14life again but you need to be willing to
13:16make that sacrifice because let me tell
13:18you something if you are constantly
13:19thinking about this girl and that girl
13:21and which girl to see tonight there's no
13:24way that you will be able to desexualize
13:25your brain and channel your focus into
13:28what really matters and once you Channel
13:30your focus into what really matters
13:33everything else will fall into place so
13:35just focus on yourself first so
13:39gentlemen pick yourself up focus on the
13:41right things and as always I'll be
13:43watching from afar and I'm rooting for
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