00:00 what's going on guys it's Jesse here and
00:02 today I'm going to share with you five
00:03 tips to flirt with a girl so when you
00:06 see that beautiful girl at the bar you
00:08 see that beautiful girl picking out
00:10 cereal at the grocery store she's
00:12 younger she's hotter she's tighter she's
00:14 got those sparkling eyes and that
00:17 gorgeous smile here's five ways that you
00:20 can flirt with her without being weird
00:22 and without coming across as creepy all
00:25 right Gentlemen let's crack right into
00:26 it the first way that you can flirt with
00:29 a girl is through teasing and when I
00:32 mean teasing I'm talking about play
00:34 fighting with her stating assumptions
00:37 instead of asking questions falsely
00:40 disqualifying her falsely disqualifying
00:43 yourself giving unexplained emotional
00:46 reactions to get her chasing you all in
00:48 all creating that interactional tension
00:52 now I had to learn about teasing the
00:54 hard way over years of failing because I
00:58 just wanted to be that nice guy that
01:00 gave the girl compliments that asked her
01:03 questions about herself now giving her
01:06 compliments and asking her questions
01:07 about herself are not bad things but I
01:10 would stack that all at the beginning of
01:12 a conversation in those first couple of
01:14 minutes seeking Rapport trying to get
01:18 into the girl's world where when you
01:20 want to create attraction you want to
01:22 create that charged excitement and get
01:24 her excited about you you actually want
01:27 to be teasing the girl and here's the
01:30 funny thing about teasing when you play
01:32 fight with a girl when you state
01:34 accusatory assumptions when you push her
01:37 away by falsely disqualifying her and
01:39 then pulling her back in and just
01:41 generally make her feel like she's on
01:43 this unsure footing it actually makes
01:46 her feel more comfortable with you not
01:49 less more comfortable with you
01:52 especially if she's a beautiful woman
01:54 because just think of a beautiful
01:56 woman's reality she's been told every
01:59 ever since she's 13 that she's beautiful
02:02 that she's perfect that she's smart she
02:04 gets whatever she wants men constantly
02:08 act like simps around her growling on
02:11 their hands and knees to get her
02:13 approval now when you come along and you
02:16 tease her you lightly push her you make
02:20 her feel a little bit unsure of herself
02:23 now she actually feels more comfortable
02:25 around you because you're acting like a
02:30 guy not one of these beta simp orbiters
02:33 that always want to just kiss her ass
02:35 because what most nice guys do when they
02:37 come along and talk to the girl is they
02:39 try to validate her they try to validate
02:41 her feelings they're giving her
02:43 compliments oh my highness you're so
02:46 perfect oh what can I do for you and it
02:49 comes across as fake she knows deep down
02:52 that guy isn't acting real with her he's
02:56 treating her like a celebrity and when
02:58 you treat her like a celebrity putting
03:00 her up on a pedestal what is she going
03:02 to do she is going to treat you like a
03:06 fanboy like oh my God okay it's another
03:08 guy just like all these guys on my phone
03:10 sending me heart eyes H you're nice
03:13 little boy you're like a nice little
03:15 puppy and she loses all attraction for
03:18 you whereas when you tease the girl when
03:21 you challenge her when you break report
03:23 and push back a little for example you
03:26 tell her you know I bet you got a closet
03:29 full of shoes you're maxing out Daddy's
03:31 credit card aren't you I can tell I can
03:33 see it in your eyes or you know Fridays
03:36 that's your cheat day you got that
03:38 freezer stocked out with the Ben &
03:40 Jerry's you're eating the Cherry Garcia
03:43 the chunky monkey I know you do that
03:46 come on you can't lie to me right you
03:48 tease the girl a little bit and finally
03:51 she's thinking oh my God this is a guy
03:53 who gets me he's treating me like a
03:55 normal human being he's not just kissing
03:58 my ass this must be a guy that deals
04:01 with other beautiful women like me just
04:03 look at the way he's talking he must be
04:05 honest he must be genuine because he's
04:08 pushing back on me that's so refreshing
04:12 it's so new and exciting to a beautiful
04:15 girl when she meets a guy like that a
04:17 man who can challenge her and is
04:20 perfectly relaxed about it now I got
04:22 four more tips to share with you on how
04:23 to flirt with girls keep in mind though
04:25 I do have a 12we coaching program which
04:30 it's the easiest way to get these
04:32 younger hotties to be stuffing their
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04:47 for you because I want girls begging for
04:50 your number that's my goal for you when
04:52 I work with you and it's time to put the
04:55 excuses to the side oh it's not the
04:57 right time oh this oh that that's
05:00 feminine behavior when you're
05:02 procrastinating when you're putting
05:04 things off when you're whining like a
05:06 little bee so it's time to stop putting
05:08 it off time to stop procrastinating and
05:11 suck it up time to face your fears time
05:15 to start believing in yourself and when
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05:40 gentlemen the second key to flirting
05:42 with these younger beautiful girls is
05:44 you don't want to take yourself too damn
05:47 seriously and I see this all the time
05:50 when I'm out at a bar there's always
05:52 that dude that's like hunting for women
05:54 in a very serious manner he's standing
05:57 there at the bar like he's James Bond
05:59 like he's a super spy he's super serious
06:03 right there's no smile going across his
06:06 face and the problem is he's not
06:09 accessible he's not exuding any warmth
06:12 he doesn't look approachable and he just
06:15 stands there like he's haunting girls
06:17 down with his eyes and the problem is
06:20 you get to inside your head look
06:22 whenever you approach a woman or strike
06:24 up a conversation first thing that girl
06:26 is going to do is turn and read your
06:28 face she wants to see where you are
06:31 coming from are you friend or are you
06:34 foe are you taking value or are you
06:36 giving value so you need to have that
06:39 big smile on your face that big
06:41 celebrity Tom Cruz smile at least for
06:44 the first 30 seconds to help make the
06:46 girl feel more comfortable and disarm
06:49 her you have to go in exuding a certain
06:51 amount of warmth and playfulness again
06:55 to make her feel comfortable and to
06:57 disarm her or if you start to take
06:59 yourself too damn seriously like you
07:02 start to build up this identity inside
07:04 your head that I'm terrific with women
07:07 I'm great with girls not a good identity
07:10 to have super serious now you can't
07:13 flirt with the girl properly you can't
07:15 exu that warmth you can't have that big
07:18 smile across your face because in your
07:20 head now it's all too damn serious now
07:23 you do want to have a high level of
07:26 self-confidence of delusional enti ement
07:30 of narcissism where you talk to yourself
07:32 in a playful way yeah I'm the best
07:36 option for these girls smelling
07:38 fantastic tall got the blue eyes girls
07:41 fall in love with me every time I talk
07:43 to them that delusional narcissistic
07:46 selft talk but again guys it has to be
07:48 playful it's not serious you're not
07:51 walking around like yeah I'm the alpha
07:54 male I'm the alpha male I'm like James
07:56 Bond let me just stand in the corner all
07:58 seriously I and mug at these girls all
08:01 right gentlemen the third flirty move
08:03 you want to use to get these younger
08:05 hotter tighter better girls into bed is
08:08 good body language and fantastic eye
08:11 contact so one of my favorite moves of
08:14 all time is sexual gazing sexual gazing
08:19 giving the woman those Tiger Eyes is
08:21 when you look her in the eyes and you
08:23 picture her naked you imagine tilting
08:26 her head back and kissing her neck you
08:29 imagine looking deep into her soul and
08:32 looking at the person behind the person
08:35 at the same time you slow the rhythm of
08:37 your voice down to make it sound sexier
08:41 with longer and longer pauses and
08:45 stretching out those vows to give
08:48 yourself that sexy warm voice and
08:52 gentlemen this sexual gazing makes women
08:56 melt I know that if she's going to hold
08:59 hold eye contact back with me or even if
09:02 she's looking away shily like a lot of
09:04 girls they can't even hold the sexual
09:05 gazing they look away every couple of
09:07 seconds oh oh oh I know that if she's
09:10 doing that Mark your watches guys in
09:13 five minutes I'm going to be digging
09:15 that girl out now this move is
09:17 incredibly sexual you're not going to be
09:19 using it in the first couple seconds you
09:21 meet the girl but as soon as the girl is
09:23 engaged in that conversation as soon as
09:25 you can tell that she's hooked as soon
09:27 as you can see in her eyes that her eyes
09:29 are dilated that she's got that big
09:31 smile going from ear to ear as soon as
09:33 you can tell that she'd rather be
09:35 talking to you than anything else I'm
09:37 going to start giving her little flashes
09:40 of the Tiger Eyes little bursts of the
09:43 sexual gazing and just see testing the
09:45 waters if she's going to hold that gaze
09:48 back with me and we're effectively
09:50 building that sexual tension up turning
09:52 it from a zero out of 10 to a 1 to a two
09:55 to a three to a four out of 10 and
09:57 that's where the girl starts to feel
09:59 those tingles between the legs that's
10:01 where she gets excited from the flirting
10:04 that's where she feels that tantalizing
10:06 feeling that's addictive to the girl and
10:08 when it's done properly when you have
10:10 that flirtatious eye contact that's
10:12 deeply sexual the girl feels like if she
10:15 was alone in the bathroom with you you
10:17 just rip her clothes off and she's
10:19 thinking to herself man this guy is so
10:21 interesting I love talking in this guy
10:23 this guy is just giving me those
10:25 butterflies and she doesn't even know
10:27 where it's coming from exactly it's just
10:29 by the way you look into her eyes that's
10:32 all it is guys and look when you combine
10:34 the teasing the play fighting the push
10:37 and the pull the interactional tension
10:40 with the girl with not taking yourself
10:42 too seriously being playful having that
10:45 cocky playful smile on your face and the
10:49 Tiger Eyes the sexualized gazing to turn
10:52 up the heat of that sexual tension you
10:55 combine those three elements and you
10:57 will be like no other man the woman has
11:00 ever met before in her entire life
11:04 especially if she's a really hot girl if
11:06 she's a 9 out of 10 or 10 out of 10
11:09 women are simply not used to being
11:12 treated like that because the very
11:13 beautiful girl she's used to men melting
11:16 in her presence and becoming nice guys
11:20 giving her compliments pull pull pull
11:23 where there's no tension so if you can
11:25 do those three things in front of a very
11:27 beautiful woman that's the key to making
11:29 her fall in love with you and thinking
11:31 about you day and night like a crazy
11:34 Obsession of course most guys don't make
11:37 good eye contact with the woman they
11:39 don't have good body language they don't
11:41 believe in themselves they don't have
11:43 that confidence or that entitlement
11:45 they're not playful they take themselves
11:47 way too seriously they don't know how to
11:49 tease the girl so what ends up happening
11:52 well the girl just thinks well I don't
11:54 have sexual chemistry with this guy I'm
11:56 not feeling the butterflies and that's
11:58 how you get friend zoned all right
12:00 gentlemen my fourth tip on how to flirt
12:02 with these younger hotter tighter girls
12:04 in a way that's not creepy and is not
12:06 weird is you want to be interested but
12:09 not excited I'll say that again you want
12:12 to be interested but not overly excited
12:16 now some guys will go on these dates
12:18 acting too Stone Cold with no emotion
12:22 and it's purely A coping mechanism this
12:24 dude's on a date with a beautiful girl
12:26 he doesn't want to act overly interested
12:29 so what he does is he pretends to be not
12:32 interested he plays it cold he plays it
12:35 aloof which is a huge problem because
12:38 you want the girl to feel that aliveness
12:41 that good energy that expressive face
12:44 coming off of you that's what's going to
12:46 make her excited build that tension
12:49 build up that charged excitement but if
12:51 you're just cold and disinterested all
12:54 she'll give you back is that coldness
12:56 now most of you gentlemen you have the
12:58 the exact opposite problem of this
13:01 you're acting way too eager you're
13:04 acting way too excited you're too
13:27 overinvestment girl can feel that
13:30 neediness emanating off of you where
13:33 you're almost like this kid at Disney
13:35 World so super excited that you're
13:38 talking to this beautiful woman like
13:40 it's the best thing that's ever happened
13:42 to you like you're going to do jumping
13:44 jacks and Somers Sals you're so excited
13:47 to be talking to this girl and when your
13:48 body language comes across like you're
13:50 too excited to be there it just kills
13:53 the flirty Vibe because the woman is
13:56 thinking to herself man this guy doesn't
13:58 talk to other women like me this is a
14:00 new experience for him this is something
14:03 special for him he's not used to getting
14:06 Girls On My Level therefore he must be
14:10 lower value than me therefore what am I
14:12 doing talking to this guy I can get a
14:14 higher value guy for myself this guy's a
14:17 waste of time so there's a sweet spot
14:19 Zone you want to be in that sweet spot
14:21 where you're not acting Stone Cold to
14:24 the girl fake acting like you're aloof
14:27 like you're disinterested in her like
14:29 you're this Alpha tough guy that's too
14:31 serious and doesn't care you don't want
14:33 to be there but you don't want to be
14:35 overly agreeable overly excited overly
14:39 invested where you have these two big
14:40 flashlight eyes and a NeverEnding smile
14:43 you don't want to be there either
14:44 instead you want to be calm you want to
14:46 be relaxed and that relaxedness is
14:48 coming from a place of entitlement it's
14:51 coming from your confidence but you also
14:53 want to be expressive you want to have
14:56 an expressive alive face that showing
14:59 spark and energy you want to have
15:01 expressive eyes you want to be able to
15:03 tease the girl create that interactional
15:05 tension you want to be expressive with
15:08 your hands that's what's going to
15:09 hypnotize the girl make her interested
15:11 in talking to you so you do want to have
15:14 this alive expressiveness but also
15:16 coming from a place of relaxation where
15:19 you feel that you're up here the girl is
15:22 down here and she's lucky to be even
15:24 talking to you and my fifth tip for you
15:27 gentlemen when it comes to FL starting
15:28 with these beautiful younger attractive
15:30 women without coming across as weird
15:33 without coming across as creepy is you
15:35 want to ask her less questions and make
15:38 more statements so what do I mean by
15:41 that well it's real simple gentlemen
15:43 instead of asking a girl question like
15:46 asking her so where are you from are you
15:49 like Mexican don't ask the question but
15:53 instead make an accusatory statement you
15:56 know just looking at you I can tell
15:59 you're like half Brazilian and half
16:03 Argentinian aren't you by making an
16:06 assumption About That Girl by making a
16:08 statement instead of asking her a
16:11 question I'm effectively putting the
16:13 girl into a box I'm creating a challenge
16:17 for her I'm saying okay go ahead climb
16:21 out of that box that I've now put you
16:22 into and what that does is it draws the
16:26 girl into the conversation because she's
16:29 going to want to correct you and here's
16:31 the big reason why when it comes to
16:33 flirting with the girl especially in
16:36 those first couple of minutes why I
16:38 don't like asking questions is when you
16:41 ask the girl a question like okay so
16:43 where are you from it's the most lazy
16:46 way to hit that ball back into her court
16:49 it's the most lazy way to continue the
16:51 conversation when you say oh where are
16:54 you from it's almost like saying okay
16:56 girl it's your job it's your job to make
16:59 the conversation interesting Now give me
17:02 an interesting answer back but when you
17:04 state an assumption about her instead of
17:07 asking her a question like you say you
17:09 know what you look pretty ethnically
17:11 exotic from that long black hair and
17:14 those deep brown eyes I'm going to say
17:16 you're like part Italian part Brazilian
17:20 aren't you see now you're taking that
17:23 conversation in an interesting Direction
17:26 it's more surprising you're taking more
17:28 responsibility on your shoulders for
17:31 making the conversation interesting and
17:33 you're not just hitting it back into her
17:35 Court in the most lazy way now the girl
17:37 has more to work with now it's going to
17:39 be easier for her to flirt back because
17:42 flirting has that tension and when you
17:46 put her into a box by giving her a
17:48 challenge by stating an assumption
17:51 that's what creates the tension that
17:53 interactional tension and now you have
17:56 flirting so gentlemen when it comes
17:58 comes to flirting especially in that
18:00 first minute or two of the conversation
18:03 don't just start peppering her with a
18:05 bunch of Nice Guy questions that's so
18:07 boring it's all seeking Rapport that's
18:10 not flirting instead create a little bit
18:13 of a challenge lean into creating the
18:16 tension by using accusatory statements
18:19 all right gentlemen now that you've
18:21 learned a little bit more about flirting
18:23 watch this video next it's critical for
18:25 your dating life success how to attract
18:28 women without your words how to attract
18:31 women simply through your body language
18:33 and your facial expressions and the way
18:35 you use your eyes guys if you truly want
18:38 to get Advanced with women this video is
18:41 going to explain everything you need to
18:43 know so go watch it right now
