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Why Shame is the Raid Boss of Emotions

HealthyGamerGG2021-08-09
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The video explores the concept of shame as a deep-rooted issue affecting self-esteem and identity, discussing its origins in childhood experiences and learned behaviors. It emphasizes the importance of therapy and self-awareness in overcoming shame, highlighting the impact of reexamining false narratives and reshaping one's self-perception. Breathing exercises and introspection are recommended to handle shame, with a focus on remapping one's identity and understanding emotional triggers. The speaker encourages acceptance and pride in all experiences, leading to a transformative journey towards emotional well-being and a positive self-image.

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The impact of undeserved outcomes on reprogramming one's understanding of deserving and feelings of shame and low self-esteem.
02:11
Shame rooted in childhood experiences and learned behaviors can hijack one's life.
Therapy focusing on cognitive-behavioral approaches has been slow but beneficial in addressing shame.
The speaker questions the origins of shame, its physiological impact, and meditative strategies for overcoming it.
Finding solace in Dr. K's breakdowns of shame topics and emphasizing the importance of self-awareness in recognizing and addressing shame.
Discussion on shame and core shame.
05:38
Emotions are transient but core shame is deeply ingrained in neuroscience.
Perfectionism illustrated through bridezilla example, showing the detrimental effects on relationships and finances.
Happiness linked to perfection is short-lived.
Importance of addressing root causes of emotions like fear and shame rather than ignoring them.
Overcoming Core Shame and Reshaping Identity.
08:09
Core shame is a trigger of emotions caused by the ego, not an emotion itself.
Understanding the roots of shame can aid in remapping one's identity.
Embracing failures and persevering can shift self-perception from failure to success.
Changing one's self-narrative can break free from persistent feelings of shame and build a positive self-image.
Importance of understanding physiological patterns and emotional responses.
11:09
Breathing patterns can influence emotions like shame.
Scientific experiments show increase in CO2 concentration induces anxiety.
Emphasizes two-pronged approach to overcoming shame through identity and emotion.
Remapping identity and identifying emotional triggers can lead to emotional well-being.
Inducing emotions through altering CO2 and oxygen concentrations and handling shame through breathing exercises.
13:03
Breathing exercises like Nari Shuddi and Ohm chanting are recommended to manage shame.
Introspection on deserving shame, childhood experiences of shame, and impact of undeserved experiences on self-perception.
Importance of questioning identity versus circumstances and how unwarranted shame can rewire perceptions of deservingness.
Undeserved shame can lead to carrying negative programming through life.
The impact of shame on identity and the process of reshaping self-perception.
17:26
Reexamine and challenge ingrained beliefs of unworthiness.
Therapy and personal growth are crucial in the journey of self-acceptance.
Recognizing false narratives can lead to a transformative remapping of identity.
Encouragement to accept and take pride in all experiences, regardless of labels.