00:00in this video i'm gonna be talking about
00:01mgtow again men going their own way
00:03i'm gonna talk about how they're right
00:06about a lot of things they're wrong
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00:29the fundamental concept of men going
00:33their own way or mgtow
00:35is correct i am against mgtow for some
00:38okay the the concept itself i'm not
00:42the community that's evolved around it i
00:44am very much against that you can see
00:46from the comments section it's just a
00:47it's a vile cesspool a lot of these guys
00:49even though they've got some valid
00:51and some valid reasoning i want to start
00:54touch base with you so i think the whole
00:56idea of men going their own way
00:58at its core makes sense it's great it's
01:01a good philosophy to have in life
01:03is basically this is that as a man
01:06you should not be so concerned
01:10with females with women okay you should
01:13base your life around them and try and
01:17doing things in order to be more
01:18attractive to women i agree 100
01:20there's too many guys that are trapped
01:21in that too worried about that
01:23too upset about all of these issues
01:27okay and it's it's destroying their
01:30instead as a man you should be focused
01:35in life what is your mission improve
01:39improve your finances improve your
01:41physique improve your
01:43your situation in life your status
01:44achieve the things that you want improve
01:47make money okay whatever it is that
01:51your art okay your gift to the world
01:54focus on that the other thing that i
01:57really agree with the mgtow guys
01:59about is the idea that the deck is
02:02men today especially in the court system
02:05especially in the family court system
02:06it's very correct it's very very
02:08true you got to watch yourself as as a
02:10man today and to also be aware of the
02:12of women right to understand that it's
02:14not this whole fairy tale
02:16type of you know situation that you may
02:33you need to realize that you will get
02:36you will get taken advantage of if
02:39as far as the the way to handle this
02:43that's where probably we're differing
02:46a lot of guys that have this quote red
02:49rage have taken this
02:52mgtow philosophy which made some sense
02:55and what they've done is they've turned
02:59like a social group and they have used
03:02to be angry anger is a feminine trait
03:06in the marvel universe right in avengers
03:09the most masculine character in the
03:11entire movie is thanos
03:12why he doesn't show anger he is
03:15in control of his emotions a real man
03:20is able to control his emotion doesn't
03:21mean he doesn't feel emotions
03:23it's just that he can control those
03:25emotions he doesn't let them dictate his
03:28actions a man is primarily masculine in
03:32his core was a woman is
03:33primarily feminine in her core and so
03:37overrun by his anger for him to act out
03:40is extremely weak now i understand that
03:44that are mcdowell that are watching this
03:46you don't subscribe to that
03:48you you don't want to be classified into
03:51that's fine because a lot of you guys
03:53are calling it not a movement
03:54that's great then what i'm saying
03:55doesn't apply to you you don't have to
03:56worry you don't have to get all
03:58upset and butt hurt and defend your
04:01if you're getting angry if you're
04:02getting upset if you're getting butt
04:04okay it means that you
04:08are not in control you may be going your
04:12but it's not a man going his own way
04:15upset little bitch going her own way
04:18desperation despair if you feel like
04:21injustice has been done to you and you
04:22should be angry about it and society's
04:24done you wrong and women's don't
04:26have done you wrong and you're going
04:28your own way because fuck them
04:29i'm angry it's weak now if you've made a
04:32rational decision if you said hey
04:35you know what the death is stacked
04:36against me it makes more sense as a man
04:38to go against my to go after my mission
04:41purpose in life to try and prove myself
04:45and right now a lot of the the
04:48the choices that i have as far as women
04:51great choices right that makes a lot of
04:54sense but if you've done that you're not
04:56coming on to people's channels
04:57and you're not posting about how they're
04:59simpletons and cucks
05:00okay you're not calling women thoughts
05:04the whole over there you you don't need
05:07all this negativity and anger because
05:09you don't have that's the real problem
05:11that i see with mgtow is it's
05:12encouraging especially a lot of young
05:15to have this cool red pill rage saying
05:16it's just a phase they're going through
05:18which is a very feminine attribute it's
05:20more female in nature and it's
05:23encouraging them to have the victim
05:24mindset they take out their rage on
05:26other people they dehumanize people
05:27when you call people who don't agree
05:31and simps and what manginas and all this
05:34and you call women hoes and thoughts and
05:38what ends up happening is you dehumanize
05:39that person which allows you to commit
05:41violence against them because they're
05:43not human they're lesser
05:44very much influential to young men
05:48who haven't stepped into their masculine
05:49you haven't stepped into manhood yet who
05:51are now adopting this victim mindset
05:53and now we're setting them up for the
05:56towards violence to themselves and to
05:59senseless violence this is where all
06:01these shootings come from anger comes
06:03expectations not being met a feeling of
06:06injustice the problem is
06:08if you are angry you have some
06:11expectation that's not being met you
06:12expect the world to be something or
06:14someone to do something
06:15and they're not it's not behaving the
06:16way that you want and so the solution to
06:18if you're feeling anger if you're
06:20feeling this red pill rage i understand
06:21that to some degree you feel like it's
06:24is to stop having expectations this is
06:27why i say the face and confront
06:28reality this is why i say that trying to
06:30change the world is not a solution to
06:32your problems being angry at the world
06:33is not all solution your problems
06:35calling women names is not solution your
06:37problems okay i might agree with you
06:40on some of the behaviors that i dislike
06:43i may agree with you on some of the
06:44behaviors that come from men i may agree
06:46on the way that society has become you
06:50a feminist i may agree that those are
06:53all right but my expectation
06:56is that that's how it is i i don't have
07:00of it being different i don't have
07:01control over those things you don't have
07:03control over those things you might
07:05yelling and screaming and being angry
07:08it gives you the feeling of control but
07:10you're not actually changing people's
07:11minds you're not actually changing
07:14and even if hundreds and thousands of
07:16men express their anger
07:17it doesn't change the underlying nature
07:19of reality so what is the solution to
07:22it is to change your expectations to not
07:24expect things to be different than they
07:25you have to deal with the circumstances
07:27if you choose to opt out of the game
07:29you can't really opt out the game but if
07:30you choose to go your own way
07:32that's fine you can do that but it
07:35shouldn't be coming out of
07:36anger you shouldn't have an expectation
07:38that things should be
07:39the way that you want them to be there's
07:41one other thing i want to talk about
07:42which is avoidance avoidance is not a
07:46i don't need women i'm not going to have
07:47anyone in my life because they
07:49they're total bitches and hoes and all
07:52they say all this stuff and they think
07:55that they're going to live their lives
07:57without any kind of female companionship
08:00is great as an idea to have
08:03as a man to go quote monk mode but in
08:06practicality it doesn't make sense and
08:08you're also missing a large component of
08:12do need you're biologically built
08:15to have interactions with women you
08:18don't need any particular
08:19woman but you do need this as a man you
08:22need to deal with the problems
08:23head on this is again one of the biggest
08:25conflicts i have with mgtow guys
08:27is they want to just avoid the problem
08:29it doesn't mean write things off
08:30completely doesn't mean
08:31write off relationships and females
08:35okay it means to understand how to
08:37interact if you're just expecting a
08:40woman to come into your life
08:41and to just treat you like a king even
08:43though you don't you're this angry
08:44little bitch you don't deserve to be
08:47it's not gonna happen all right it's not
08:48gonna happen that's not the reality
08:50so i don't like this avoidance i'd
08:53rather you deal with the problem
08:54okay if women are a certain way and
08:57you want to go your own way and focus on
09:00your mission and purpose that's great
09:01focus on your mission and purpose
09:03but don't completely say okay well i'm
09:06not gonna have anything to do with women
09:08you're really acting like a male
09:09feminist yeah there might be some
09:12uh you know pressures right some
09:16norms that have that have occurred that
09:19the whole society very emasculated
09:23that's fine that's that's how it is but
09:26you have to operate and live
09:27in that society in that environment and
09:30that you can and if you're focused on
09:32your own shit and you're focused on
09:34improving yourself and you're not a
09:36you're gonna find some success in that
09:38but you're still gonna have to do the
09:39work get your shit right
09:41okay that's great all right don't focus
09:44you don't need to but don't avoid them
09:46you haven't faced your fears you haven't
09:48faced the conflict you've just gone off
09:52okay you know i know some people call it
09:54men sent their own way
09:55and i agree in that case you've been
09:56sent your own way society said
09:59you know fuck you women said fuck you
10:01and you said well fine i'm just gonna i
10:04my own way you were sent that way you
10:06didn't make that choice
10:07you acted like a little bitch you got
10:09angry about it you got upset you feel
10:11okay and that's why you did what you did
10:14is a victim mindset all right and i know
10:16that a lot of you have the victim
10:18but you got to cure that shit the victim
10:20mindset will never help you succeed in
10:22life and there are a lot of the reasons
10:24you are unsuccessful in life if you're
10:26unsuccessful is because
10:27of that victim mindset it's going to
10:28carry over to all of your life click
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